"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Inner Don Juan is Shining Through!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Man, college is a great place to develop your skills as a DJ!

Lately, I have been improving leaps and bounds in my game. Let this be encouragement to all you guys who are struggling out there, you just need to persevere. It is a GREAT feeling to be at a party and have the alpha male types trying to prove THEMSELVES to you, to smoothly AMOG guys who are trying to c0ckblock you, quickly become the alpha male in any group, and to have girls fawning all over you!

When I think of what a pvssy I used to be, it makes me realize all that I missed out on. I am not yet where I want to be, but I keep getting closer!

Flame if you want, but also post your good experiences if you want to. I created this thread for encouragement everyone on this board who may be struggling.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ladies and gentlemen, here is another version of myself! I congrat you, and remember....my quote

"Approach 5 a day... in a sexual way...and you'll never run out of pvss-say!"
 
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Oh I forgot to tell you also bro...

I'm bringin sexy back, you want to help me? :rockon:
 

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Oh, I forgot to mention that one of the alpha males who was trying to qualify himself to me the other night was older than me and surrounded by beautiful girls (and I'm sure he's not gay). He was trying to qualify himself to me because he saw me meet, attract, isolate, and escalate a hot upperclass girl in about 20 minutes. I even suprised myself with that one!
 

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You're obviously in a good spot right now.

Aside from giving some random tips around here, I personally think you should avoid this site at all costs.

College is the most ridiculously easy time in life to get laid and all that this site will do is gum up what is working for you right now.

Social proof is the most important thing at any school for the most part. For me I have no idea why so many younger guys even bother with this site having little to no experience. Enjoy yourself and happy hunting.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm bringin sexy back
Yeah!

*ahem*, I'm not a central alpha, because I run by my own ways. I like solo isolation, but that's because I'm so effective at it. Time and time again I take someone that doesn't know me, and we're talking like we've known each other for a while. I never forget to throw in some CF&F (not a typo), and I always display the awesome hangout guy aura. =)
 

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belividere said:
Social proof is the most important thing at any school for the most part.
That is soooooo true! It really helps that I am able to talk to a group of people, attract the girls, AMOG any alphas, show social proof, and then when it's going really well I see a bunch of people I know across the room, excuse myself, and repeat the process again. Then I can come back to any one of the previous groups I was talking to and jump in again. Talk about massive social proof!
 

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Ya it is! S.P. is gold.
Congrats man! Enjoy the rising.
 
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