"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My Hot, Older, Neighbor

RedPill

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My observations on "older" women (late 20s and beyond)...

1. Many of them are INITIALLY attractive simply because they don't look and act as annoyingly dumb as their younger-woman counterparts. The intelligence factor and the fact she acts more classy is refreshing and a turn-on.

2. Then you start hanging around with her, perhaps even fvcking her, and it's like being at the airport after your plane landed - one piece of baggage at a time comes into view until there is a lot of baggage circulating. It's always the same stuff too. If it's not children with an ex-spouse she has to be in contact with frequently, it's that 5-year+ ltr that messed her up because it didn't lead to marriage. Or, it could be that she's just extremely jaded and cautious from all her previous heartbreaks.

3. Ah yes, the good ole' biological clock. Many of her friends are married, or close to it. Her younger sister has an adorable 3 year-old. Her looks are just beginning to decline and she doesn't have the resources to stay hot for another 20 years. Casual relationships just don't cut it, she needs a provider, and soon!

Now, to be fair, there are some older available women who are not driven by the marriage/children agenda, who've made it through their 20s without accumulating a ton of baggage, and who are the exception to the "all the good ones are taken" rule, but they are few and far between.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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squirrels

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Originally posted by qweretyuiopas
Age is only an issue if you think it is an issue.
'zactly.

If YOU feel awkward about talking to an older woman, it will project on to her and she will start to feel awkward because YOU feel awkward.

If YOU feel comfortable "DJing" her, then she may feel awkward at first, but you're cool attitude will loosen her up as well.

I've been with many older women, some almost a decade over my own age. 28's an awkward age for women because they're still in that "must-get-married" phase and haven't reverted to the 30s "must **** while I still look good" phase...but you can swing it. Just chill. ;)
 

Sapiens

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Originally posted by RedPill
My observations on "older" women (late 20s and beyond)...

1. Many of them are INITIALLY attractive simply because they don't look and act as annoyingly dumb as their younger-woman counterparts. The intelligence factor and the fact she acts more classy is refreshing and a turn-on.

2. Then you start hanging around with her, perhaps even fvcking her, and it's like being at the airport after your plane landed - one piece of baggage at a time comes into view until there is a lot of baggage circulating. It's always the same stuff too. If it's not children with an ex-spouse she has to be in contact with frequently, it's that 5-year+ ltr that messed her up because it didn't lead to marriage. Or, it could be that she's just extremely jaded and cautious from all her previous heartbreaks.

3. Ah yes, the good ole' biological clock. Many of her friends are married, or close to it. Her younger sister has an adorable 3 year-old. Her looks are just beginning to decline and she doesn't have the resources to stay hot for another 20 years. Casual relationships just don't cut it, she needs a provider, and soon!

Now, to be fair, there are some older available women who are not driven by the marriage/children agenda, who've made it through their 20s without accumulating a ton of baggage, and who are the exception to the "all the good ones are taken" rule, but they are few and far between.
Damn what a good post!

-Sapiens
 
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