"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My Highschool FR

E_Sex

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So a little background on me, I'm a high school senior. As far as the social ladder goes, I'm not at the top, but I'd say about the 80th percentile, maybe higher. My game is relatively alright, but it could be way better and so could my confidence with girls that I percieve as socially higher than me... gotta get out of my head.

I currently am thinking of this FR and highschool phase i my life as a transitional and bettering phase of my DJ life, so that I can just mack down on those college girls, to put it simply lol. I know, it may not work out like that but meh, we'll see.

A little info about the HB's that I'm currently mackin and not-so-mackin.
HBYellow - I'll start with her, but I've been trying to go NC on her, becasue this is the girl I've had oneitis with for some time, but she's still there every once in a while.

HBfb - this is a girl who goes to another school relatively close and knows a lot of people I know. We kind of started our thing on facebook, I'm currently, contemplating going NC on her, because I hung out with her today and she was acting out of the ordinary, and was really rude and I ended up leaving. She later tried to make it out to be a joke, but she's got the wrong perception of me, thinking she's going to boss me around and shlt, so I'm not sure what to do with this yet.

HBsmall - this girl I had a thing with for a while, we would hook up in my car everyday for a while, but I made the mistake of telling one of my friends and she found and decided to stop hooking up with me, so needless to say, I decided to stop hanging out with her afterschool in my car. But she still wants to hang out without hooking up and I haven't told her yet that that's not going to work for lack of knowing how to do that right, so I've had her on NC for about 1.5 weeks.

HBhair - this girl I've had a thing with for a month or so, and we hung out a couple times but I might just drop her, since she cut her hair and is significantly less attractive now, so I'm not sure.

HBex - another one of my ex-gfs who I haven't talked to in a while but she recently asked me out and shows interest.

As you guys can see, I have quite a few girls on NC, but we'll see how it plays out. Hope you guys stick with me through my shlt. Stay tuned haha.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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E_Sex said:
So a little background on me, I'm a high school senior. As far as the social ladder goes, I'm not at the top, but I'd say about the 80th percentile, maybe higher. My game is relatively alright, but it could be way better and so could my confidence with girls that I percieve as socially higher than me... gotta get out of my head.You gotta change this mindset man. Everyone is equal, noone is superior to you.

I currently am thinking of this FR and highschool phase i my life as a transitional and bettering phase of my DJ life, so that I can just mack down on those college girls, to put it simply lol. I know, it may not work out like that but meh, we'll see.It's all in your control. If you decide to take right action and improve, then college will be a joke. If you start taking right action, you will easily end up as HPRJ: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/135273
Bold.
A new journal/FR, awesome! Great stuff.
 

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Ok so Ive come to the realization that posting on here takes a lot more motivation than i previously thought. And since its been something like 2 weeks since I posted dont expect any word by word encounters lol. Its basically going to be a large summarization sorry guys I was hoping to give one of those, you just cant stop reading FRs haha.

But down to business. I completely dropped HBfb, I couldn't handle the stalkerish tone of her.

Ill get straight to my most promising plates, right now.
HBex: She recently asked me out to a dance, and yesterday I went to the movies with her. The only problem I have with this girl is that she's very prude-ish. I could use some advice with her, she doesnt respond to kino much, and she has told me in the past that she "doesn't hook up with people unless they're her boyfriend." Anybody else ever experienced anything like this? She's responsive to verbal flirting somewhat, but she just seems much less sexual than most girls, and Im not sure what to do with her.

Im hoping for some help to escalate at the dance with her, because it seems like the prime time to get with her.

Now on to my next HB that I went out with twice. She's new, Ill call her HBdouble, because i went out with her originally on a double date with my other friend. At the time of the first date she had a boyfriend but we made good kino and eye contact, basically a lot of flirting.

Then we went out on another double date, and she told me she broke up with her bf, which I took as a pretty big IOI the way she said it. After the other couple left, I drove her home, on the way we flirted alot and I took her hat, adn we ended up making out on the drive. When we got to her house she got out and wanted her hat back for a kiss. I was going to go for more but she sort of escaped aafter the kiss. Ill probably hang out with her sometime this week, not sure.

Im going to try and update this more often so that I can get some dialougue into my FR, next time.
 
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