This is the major transition that I underwent from freshman year to senior year. I is a little long so bear with me.
Freshman year was hell in the beginning coming off of a very bad eight grade year. I basically had no friends and everyone picked on me. I quit football that year which was very stupid because I loved football, that didn't help my rep much either. People were pissed at me for doing that because I was supposed to be one of the best freshmen that year. So that decision in itself made me extremely unpopular at school with students and teachers both. I got picked on alot, I never stood up for myself, and getting a girl was way out of the question.
Sophmore year rolls around and I realized that quitting football was stupid so I went back out for the team. That made me feel more confident becauseif anything makes you confident playing football does. I had started making some friends from my team and I made friends with their friends and so on. Well at that point I was feeling really good about myself but still no girls, and I was still unhappy.
Junior year rolls around and that was the best year of high school. Our football team went 9-3, I had a lot more friends than I could had ever dreamt of, and I was starting to be happy. Girls also started to notice these changes in me. Unfortunatly, that was before I found this site and was a total AFC as far as women go. But I was getting alot more attention. That spring I was on the track team, and I had set a goal for myself to win state in at least one event. So I worked my a$$ of every day and completly focused all of my attention on this goal. Well, I accomplished it by winning three of my events at state. Doing this raised my value so much because I had done something that no one in our schools history had ever done. I also felt great about myself for making a goal and accomplishing it.
By the time my senior year came, I knew so many people and had a lot of really good friends. I was even voted most popular out of my entire senior class. A complete transiton from my freshman year. I still had trouble with women because I was AFC. But I really wasn't too concerned with women because I was proud of going from a complete loser to the guy that I am now.
In the end of it all, I made it this far without using women as a motivating factor, I just wanted to better myself and just have friends. Girls were the last thing on my mind, just having a friend was big for me. If you would've told me that I would had changed that much when I was a freshman I would've told you that you were crazy. So for those of you who think that you can make it a pleasant experience if you have the right attitude. But if you can't make it pleasant(which really can happen if you let it)remember that there is always college which is a whole other animal which I will not talk about in this thread.
Freshman year was hell in the beginning coming off of a very bad eight grade year. I basically had no friends and everyone picked on me. I quit football that year which was very stupid because I loved football, that didn't help my rep much either. People were pissed at me for doing that because I was supposed to be one of the best freshmen that year. So that decision in itself made me extremely unpopular at school with students and teachers both. I got picked on alot, I never stood up for myself, and getting a girl was way out of the question.
Sophmore year rolls around and I realized that quitting football was stupid so I went back out for the team. That made me feel more confident becauseif anything makes you confident playing football does. I had started making some friends from my team and I made friends with their friends and so on. Well at that point I was feeling really good about myself but still no girls, and I was still unhappy.
Junior year rolls around and that was the best year of high school. Our football team went 9-3, I had a lot more friends than I could had ever dreamt of, and I was starting to be happy. Girls also started to notice these changes in me. Unfortunatly, that was before I found this site and was a total AFC as far as women go. But I was getting alot more attention. That spring I was on the track team, and I had set a goal for myself to win state in at least one event. So I worked my a$$ of every day and completly focused all of my attention on this goal. Well, I accomplished it by winning three of my events at state. Doing this raised my value so much because I had done something that no one in our schools history had ever done. I also felt great about myself for making a goal and accomplishing it.
By the time my senior year came, I knew so many people and had a lot of really good friends. I was even voted most popular out of my entire senior class. A complete transiton from my freshman year. I still had trouble with women because I was AFC. But I really wasn't too concerned with women because I was proud of going from a complete loser to the guy that I am now.
In the end of it all, I made it this far without using women as a motivating factor, I just wanted to better myself and just have friends. Girls were the last thing on my mind, just having a friend was big for me. If you would've told me that I would had changed that much when I was a freshman I would've told you that you were crazy. So for those of you who think that you can make it a pleasant experience if you have the right attitude. But if you can't make it pleasant(which really can happen if you let it)remember that there is always college which is a whole other animal which I will not talk about in this thread.
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