"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My Hearing Is Getting Worst! Help!

KmZDon

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I went to my doct?! Omg, he says I have severe hearing problem, what can I do guys??? I hate wearing a hearing aid, is there a cure?????
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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T.T. Boy

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Cochlear implants, perhaps. If you made as much money as Rush Limbaugh you might be able to afford them, too. Other than that I'm afraid you're out of luck.
 

FlyGuy

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I have some severe hearing loss from playing in a band... there's no way to repair it dude. Just protect the hearing that you have left.
 

FlyGuy

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How do you protect them? Don't expose your ears to prolonged loud noises. If you go to a rock concert, bring some ear plugs (by the way, you can get special ones from a doctor that filter out only the harmful frequencies but they are expensive). Don't listen to loud music with headphones on, don't blast your stereo in your car... pretty much just use common sense.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hardwork

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Originally posted by WrEcKLeSS2000
Wait what if you listen to ur cd player alot is that ok?
Just make sure what you're listening to isn't audible across the room. Again, just use common sense.
 

OddTech

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There is no way at this current point to really restore hearing. And cochlear implant is for "last-resort" purposes. They will only use that if you are absolutely deaf in both ears (or closed to it). What is your audiogram like? Moderate loss means you have around 40 dB loss. You probably have high frequency loss if it's due to noise trauma. You do not need a hearing aid if one ear is normal even though the other suffer some hearing loss.

Safeguard your hearing If your occupation is under loud noise, wear protection. Avoid going to loud places, parties, fireworks, concert, and even movies. Not to be bleak, but your hearing won't get any better. It can't repair itself. Good luck.
 

OddTech

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I have some major hearing loss and I need to wear an hearing aid at age 26. If I have to choose between girls and having good hearing, I would choose to get my hearing back. The world is a lonely place when you can't hear.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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