"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my hb9.5 Oneitis told me that she "needs time to think"

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skip2mylou_781 said:
i ignored most of her emails tho, but she just kept writing and writing. Then she stopped for 3 days........and then just yesterday, she wrote one saying exactly the following: "ahh, your not in my dreams anymore :) "

everyone say it along with me - ATTENTION *****
Lol, BINGO. She's basically doing push-pull and ****teasing you for ATTENTION.

I suspect she never bonded with her biological father for whatever reason (divorced, unwed single mom, bad relations, etc?)? That is the primary cause for AWing.

Anyways, ultimately she will be a waste of time and mental drain on you. Sure, you might not lose much by continuing contact...but really once you cut bait you will have so much more time and energy to pursue others...

CraigMack - Can you link the actual podcast where he gave props to Skip? I don't feel like fisking his site for it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wayword... go to the link Craig gave you, then go to his latest podcast show. Its near the very end.
 
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