my hb9.5 Oneitis told me that she "needs time to think"

[DarkLight]

He played it pretty cool, up until the point of finding out she was over her ex (w. angry disgusted passion). Then leaving it spacious silent chill.

The red flag should have been, her vehiment anger/disgust at this AFC ex, and how she was never going to get w. him again.
Now you might be thinking, what the fvck... thats great news D.Light. Yes it is... ON THE SURFACE! But........ if any of you fvckers have been in AFC love... you know
exactly what the ex-bf's state of mind/emotions were all about. And more importantly from that knowledge... his M.O. (mission objective)

To win back her love, thus gaining the power he lost in that battle that pissed her off... re-securing his relationship to himself, his heart, his love... HER!

DING DING DING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dangerous.

... you with me now?!

You overlooked the fact that even though his behaivor was literally crying w. AFC tears. They still have heart strings. Aka... they just broke up
from being in a relationship. All he had to do, was stir her emotions w. the intensity of his heart's void... to create the feelings he needed to in her.
To revive, and create doubt about anything other than the realness of HIS love. Which of course would woo any woman, to feel... and thus consider
that maybe such a bright display of honest heart emotion is "right"... and "meant to be."

W. that insight... you should have engaged the positive difference you as a MAN are to her, versus her AFC ex. The moment when she was vehimently
disgusted with him, and finalized in her mind. Not saying you should have jumped at the bit... and been all over it. But I would have definetly done something
to re-impress the beauty of your love, through superior ways. Widening the chasm and severance in her mind, towards her ex... all the while securing your position
that much more.

Maybe a random call the next night... w. some tickets to a great show. Sprinkling on the "magic" heavy... all the while leaning back in DJ cool.
Should have gotten in an adventure, some color, to paint her eyes over again... in your light.

Cause all it took was the dynamics of a heartbroken AFC, a Cool cat trying to be "indifferent", and time... for the boomerang to come around again.

Thats my take on it Ace.
If it makes you feel any better... they won't last.
And if they get married... it'll go to ruins.

 

[skip2mylou781]

I'm not saying you should have acted like that to try to keep her, but damn man, this isn't a pissing contest about who was less "wussy", it was about getting the girl. He may have acted like a total pansy, but your complete and total inaction let him get away with it. So congratulations, you're more masculine than him. But he's the one banging her everynight now. Still think you won?

yes I did win.....why would I want to be with her if she doesnt even have feelings for me????

i used her for the peice of azz that she is when all is said and done. Him and her had a 1.5 year relationship and he's screwed in the long run cuz next time they break up, it'll b even worse for both of them!!! btw S1NN3R thanks for telling me to spam myspace, i just met a nympho last night whos 21 using my wonderful spamming system. hb9

 

[skip2mylou781]

He played it pretty cool, up until the point of finding out she was over her ex (w. angry disgusted passion). Then leaving it spacious silent chill.

The red flag should have been, her vehiment anger/disgust at this AFC ex, and how she was never going to get w. him again.
Now you might be thinking, what the fvck... thats great news D.Light. Yes it is... ON THE SURFACE! But........ if any of you fvckers have been in AFC love... you know
exactly what the ex-bf's state of mind/emotions were all about. And more importantly from that knowledge... his M.O. (mission objective)

To win back her love, thus gaining the power he lost in that battle that pissed her off... re-securing his relationship to himself, his heart, his love... HER!

DING DING DING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dangerous.

... you with me now?!

You overlooked the fact that even though his behaivor was literally crying w. AFC tears. They still have heart strings. Aka... they just broke up
from being in a relationship. All he had to do, was stir her emotions w. the intensity of his heart's void... to create the feelings he needed to in her.
To revive, and create doubt about anything other than the realness of HIS love. Which of course would woo any woman, to feel... and thus consider
that maybe such a bright display of honest heart emotion is "right"... and "meant to be."

W. that insight... you should have engaged the positive difference you as a MAN are to her, versus her AFC ex. The moment when she was vehimently
disgusted with him, and finalized in her mind. Not saying you should have jumped at the bit... and been all over it. But I would have definetly done something
to re-impress the beauty of your love, through superior ways. Widening the chasm and severance in her mind, towards her ex... all the while securing your position
that much more.

Maybe a random call the next night... w. some tickets to a great show. Sprinkling on the "magic" heavy... all the while leaning back in DJ cool.
Should have gotten in an adventure, some color, to paint her eyes over again... in your light.

Cause all it took was the dynamics of a heartbroken AFC, a Cool cat trying to be "indifferent", and time... for the boomerang to come around again.

Thats my take on it Ace.
If it makes you feel any better... they won't last.
And if they get married... it'll go to ruins.

you are 100% right about everything u just said.

It turns out, they had a 1.5 year relationship and she started seeing me only 3 weeks after they broke up!! I initially thought it was 2 months. I saw her for 3 weeks total until all the afc crying and diamond ring came. Then she said she needs time to think. I really should applied logic to this situation and just DROPPED her that instant........but i actualyl tried telling her that she should stick to me instead of him (she DID call him a total psycho).

Oneitis made me stick around.........**** ONEITIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


they won't last, without a doubt.


p.s. - seems like on initial break up, HE did somethign to hurt her and that's why they broke up. Most likely part of her wanted him back.

Peice of azz to me

 

[skip2mylou781]

ABSOLUTELY THE MOST RICIDULOUS UPDATE EVER:

The hb9.5 told me how she really is - she is a *****, materialistic, and when she wants something, she gets it!!! SHe is happy being back together with her ex bf right now because, literally, he is her DasaniWater (nojoke)...he does what she says, she has ALL the power, he does not....she can go out and party with her friends, he can onyl do what she allows him to do. SHE TOLD ME ALL THIS

you kno wat, im GLAD im not that chump.......she also told me the initial reason they broke up was because "he became boring and stopped buying her things"

this girl, who i thought was so sweet and special, is actualyl just a really hot GOLD DIGGING ***** WHO WANTS TOTAL CONTROL

shes a psycho

im glad i ****ed her, and then had her get back with her ex.

im sure he's gettin laid by her as i type this.....but he's also dating the worst possible personality girl he could ever meet.

I AM GLAD SHE TOLD ME ALL THIS - WHAT A B1TCH!! (like, she admitted "I am a *****, things gotta be my way or else i get really pissed and become even more of a b1tch" <- those were HER words lol

LOL

im relieved i get to avoid this

 

[Last Man Standing]

Say "NO" to Hos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[wayword]

The red flag should have been, her vehiment anger/disgust at this AFC ex, and how she was never going to get w. him again.

This is almost a GUARANTEED telltale sign that she's still sprung on a guy and will get back with him. If she really was over him, she wouldn't be mad. You have to still have feelings to have them still hurt...

Anyways, LTRs are not quite the same as PUs. I think realistically you do have to go a little AFC to give a girl some emotional satisfaction/security to keep her longterm interest.

I mean, her ex went TOTAL AFC and broke EVERY RULE in the book...yet he is the one boinking her now... Of course, it's at a high financial and self-respect cost...but don't expect a girl of that beauty to be low-maintenance now, lol!

 

[Cod3r]

ABSOLUTELY THE MOST RICIDULOUS UPDATE EVER:

The hb9.5 told me how she really is - she is a *****, materialistic, and when she wants something, she gets it!!! SHe is happy being back together with her ex bf right now because, literally, he is her DasaniWater (nojoke)...he does what she says, she has ALL the power, he does not....she can go out and party with her friends, he can onyl do what she allows him to do. SHE TOLD ME ALL THIS

you kno wat, im GLAD im not that chump.......she also told me the initial reason they broke up was because "he became boring and stopped buying her things"

this girl, who i thought was so sweet and special, is actualyl just a really hot GOLD DIGGING ***** WHO WANTS TOTAL CONTROL

shes a psycho

im glad i ****ed her, and then had her get back with her ex.

im sure he's gettin laid by her as i type this.....but he's also dating the worst possible personality girl he could ever meet.

I AM GLAD SHE TOLD ME ALL THIS - WHAT A B1TCH!! (like, she admitted "I am a *****, things gotta be my way or else i get really pissed and become even more of a b1tch" <- those were HER words lol

LOL

im relieved i get to avoid this

This is hilarious... but imagine this...

A sweet HB9Japanese girl with a cute accent and innocent demeanor that does the same thing....

THATS A HEADTRIP...

I never thought i'd hear something like this coming out of her mouth...

"I want control and I will have it"
"You're late, buy me something"
"We're going to dinner, its on you"

This is one major blemish on my resume, she was so sweetly dominant I didn't realize i'd become a pathetic excuse for a man until one day I lost my job and she left me that very afternoon...

Wow, i actually have to respect her... she played me right, i still laugh to this day


-Cod3r

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

This is almost a GUARANTEED telltale sign that she's still sprung on a guy and will get back with him. If she really was over him, she wouldn't be mad. You have to still have feelings to have them still hurt...

Anyways, LTRs are not quite the same as PUs. I think realistically you do have to go a little AFC to give a girl some emotional satisfaction/security to keep her longterm interest.

I mean, her ex went TOTAL AFC and broke EVERY RULE in the book...yet he is the one boinking her now... Of course, it's at a high financial and self-respect cost...but don't expect a girl of that beauty to be low-maintenance now, lol!

The ex catered to her needs, just another guy that was a slave to the pvssy. Like it was said earlier, there were red flags all over the place. This is why guys should always be wary of being the rebound guy.

 

[Oxide]

I just read this quote:

"Strong men are led by their minds. Weak ones by their bodies"

Very very true.

Oh, and man, I can't believe how many girls out there are freaking insane and slutty. Jeeeeeeesus!

 

[wayword]

one day I lost my job and she left me that very afternoon...

Lol, wow. Women tend to be either wh0res for resources (gold-diggers) or male validation ("sluts"). Asian women tend to be the former and non-Asian women the latter..

I have some overseas Asian friends and probably the most common reason for them getting dumped is that his career wasn't going the way she wanted (lucrative, high-status and ambitious).

 

[Cod3r]

I'm noticing there are hardly no poor Japanese women in NYC...

That's why they only get with the high status guys with money, they are used to that lifestyle. Japan's economy is kicking, every azn person I know of Japanese decent is rich, travel back and forth to Japan every month, that's a 2000$ ticket every month !!!

I've gone out with my girls friends (all japanese) and they always want to go to NoBu which is probably the most expensive sushi restaurant in the United States, 350$ for one sushi platter per person... I always feel like a loser when her friends husbands or boyfriends are picking up the tab, sometimes i have to just turn it down and she gotta go by herself because i feel like a tooL... I can't afford 400$ meeals...


-Cod3r

 

[Docs]

^ Now comes the question, is that $350/400 platter of sushi WORTH IT? Are those people paying that much for it because they are looking for a ummaterialistic future (getting with her), as part of a secured business transaction (it'll happen), or as a celebration and you wanted to go all out (Yeah!)

That's how you justify that expensive of a meal . Not worth it, then don't bother.

 

[Tazman]

im sure he's gettin laid by her as i type this.....but he's also dating the worst possible personality girl he could ever meet.

lol, what makes you think his goal was any different than yours? He happened to end up getting what he wanted, in the short term. I guarantee you both could've cared less about the outcome, as long as you got that immediate gratification.

As far as the chick goes, if she's as good looking as you describe, she knows she has many options and she will choose the path of least resistance to get what she wants. You didn't provide enough incentive (value) for her to feel like she was losing out on something she couldn't easily get back.

 

[Cod3r]

^ Now comes the question, is that $350/400 platter of sushi WORTH IT? Are those people paying that much for it because they are looking for a ummaterialistic future (getting with her), as part of a secured business transaction (it'll happen), or as a celebration and you wanted to go all out (Yeah!)

That's how you justify that expensive of a meal . Not worth it, then don't bother.

They go their like 3x's a month, its just normal for them...

I told my girl she gotta find another man to accompany her, I'll be waiting at her house ready to fvck her after some other shmuck spends that money:moon:


-Cod3r

 

[CraigMack]

Well Skip, my boy PlayerSupreme paid you a compliment on his show today. It seems he was reading your post and said you did the right thing.

You can pick it up here:

www.theplayersupremeshow.com

This is the first time I have heard him do this.

I also think you did the right thing and you have set a good example of what a DJ is and should tolerate in his life.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

here is the email she wrote me - who can analyze this? (i saw her for 3 weeks, saw her about 7 times, fvcked her 3 times)

i want to be realistic as well. and the reality is, that i do care about you, no so much that infact it scared me. but so much that maybe one day it could. (not a bad thing)

i know you dont understand my reasoning for what i want. and i am sorry for that. i know how i feel about you. and i know how i feel about danny. and while i do love him, i'm no longer in love with him. i did not accept that ring, and i never plan to.

if you want to just pick up and move on, then please do so. it is only my fault if that is the case. i would never expect you to just wait around for me, we never got that serious. and i know just becasue you wont come crying to me and buy me expensive things in hope of forgiveness, does not mean you dont care. i would not expect anything like that from you in the first place.

i was very happy, and you were a BIG part of that, and i thank you for making me feel so. and it is something i truly do not want to loose, but like i said i need this time. so please dont wait for me, i would not want to. besides, i know you wont. but there honestly has to be a reason why i felt the way i did with you so soon, and while i cant put my finger on it, i know it means something. i think that is why i dont think i will loose you completly, but if i do, so be it, MY FAULT!

so thank you for trying to understand me the best you could. and thank you for making me feel so beautiful and special. you were one of the very few men that i know that could make me feel that way! you were always so amazing to me!

If you have already fvcked her three times, you shouldn't need to fvck her anymore, forget about her, move on and fvck another pretty girl, never become emotionally involved with the one woman, there are pretty girls everywhere, you don't need to be in a relationship, dudes who are the prize never have a girlfreind, they remain single, live by themselves and create their own rules, they take advantage of their life style and are always fvcking different hot babes on a regular basis, once they have fvcked the girl the challenge is over, it is time to move on.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

This is almost a GUARANTEED telltale sign that she's still sprung on a guy and will get back with him. If she really was over him, she wouldn't be mad. You have to still have feelings to have them still hurt...

Anyways, LTRs are not quite the same as PUs. I think realistically you do have to go a little AFC to give a girl some emotional satisfaction/security to keep her longterm interest.

I mean, her ex went TOTAL AFC and broke EVERY RULE in the book...yet he is the one boinking her now... Of course, it's at a high financial and self-respect cost...but don't expect a girl of that beauty to be low-maintenance now, lol!

Remember all hot babes are slvts, they are only good for one thing, a fvck, if you never have feelings for a girl you can't ever get hurt, you do have to play the game, pretend that you are an awesome dude, but as soon as you get your fvck, move on, continue to sarge and cold approach, dudes who have feelings for the babes never get to fvck them, the dudes who don't have any feelings for them are much more confident, they couldn't give a sh!t
if one particular hot babe desired them or not, if she does they fvck her and move on, if she doesn't they just move on until they find a hot babe who will fvck them, this is the true way to play this game. :yes:

 

[DarkLight]

Remember all hot babes are slvts, they are only good for one thing, a fvck, if you never have feelings for a girl you can't ever get hurt, you do have to play the game, pretend that you are an awesome dude, but as soon as you get your fvck, move on, continue to sarge and cold approach, dudes who have feelings for the babes never get to fvck them, the dudes who don't have any feelings for them are much more confident, they couldn't give a sh!t if one particular hot babe desired them or not, if she does they fvck her and move on, if she doesn't they just move on until they find a hot babe who will fvck them, this is the true way to play this game. :yes:

At first glance... thats what it seems. But in my book... that lacks depth, juice, color and richness. I'm here to be a fvckin DonJuan. Not a lifeless *******, that uses women for a cheap orgasm.

Give me the fruits baby!
I want to enjoy that twinkle of beauty she shines. (And then her sister's, lol). I want them both to enjoy my joy of them... and waltz away feeling like a trillion bucks, and better for it. That feeling will have her singing to her girlfriend's. Exactly what I want... cause I got big heart for them too.

This sh!t is about DonJuan'ism, player.
Multi-dimensional big-heart pimpin. lol.
A man of freedom, power, happyness, and sexual ecstasy.

Not some cold dark calculations.

You seem to drop some Game, so I wouldn't doubt your probably parallel w. what I'm saying here. But curious to hear your clarification, as I'm sure it will be of value.

Peace'

 

[skip2mylou_781]

my original user name got banned. I said some bad things to trolls, and I also said some bad things to AFCS - well I wont do that no more cuz i dont wanna be banned.

Anyway, believe it or not guys, i have ANOTHER update on this situation, even though i have not seen this ***** for 5 weeks now


through out the last 2 weeks, this bytch WOULD NOT LEAVE ME ALONE!!! she must have written me 5 emails in a 10 day span which were pretty freaky - she has said shes been having DREAMS about me and how we are together and how she is so happy in those dreams, and then she wakes up and its over. She then would say "what does this mean? why do i dream about u every night?"

needless to say, i at first was intrigued and i replied, telling her "well, it basically means that u regret not being with me and ur subconcious is telling u to just see me". W/e i basically told her something along those lines

i ignored most of her emails tho, but she just kept writing and writing. Then she stopped for 3 days........and then just yesterday, she wrote one saying exactly the following: "ahh, your not in my dreams anymore "

everyone say it along with me - ATTENTION *****

 

[DarkLight]

lol... *****es are crazy.

Straight up... a b!tch w. game is seriously dangerous.
Gotta see them for what they are, to keep it clear.

You called it.