my hb9.5 Oneitis told me that she "needs time to think"

[DjVelvet]

Skip2mylou,

So before she said that she's confused (first post),
Did you guys still Fvck one another? or being really close like holding hands and hugging?

It make a big diff if you guys are still close to one another before she drop the "confusion" bomb.

 

[speed dawg]

sorry troll hunter, im not a troll and this situation is very real

Are you kidding me? You're on here all the time giving out useless advice, acting like you're a pimp. Shouldn't you work out your problems before coming on here and giving out completely retarded advice, esp. because you have no frickin idea what you're talking about, as evident in your "real situation".

Dude, you were just her rebound. What are you gonna do, let her fukk her ex-boyfriend until she gets tired of him, then take his sloppy seconds. Only a troll could be this clueless. This girl doesn't like you, if she did, there'd be no question.

You were nothing more than a rebound. Get over it.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Skip2mylou,

So before she said that she's confused (first post),
Did you guys still Fvck one another? or being really close like holding hands and hugging?

It make a big diff if you guys are still close to one another before she drop the "confusion" bomb.

her and i saw each other 7 times before she said shes confused, we made out and cuddled all the time, and we fvcked 3 times on the 5th time when we rented a hotel room for the night

 

[speed dawg]

well, WOW jsut WOW - I feel alot better right now because we talked for a while, and she wants NOTHING to do with her ex, she hates him, he might love her but hes just crazy, "he could buy me the whole ****in jewelry store and id never be with him again"...........basically, i am HAPPY that she is deffinitely not gonna be with her ex.

You're a sweet little emotional tampon, aren't you?

I am also happy that since i talked to her, now i see the REAL reason why she told me she needs time to think.........and its the oldest one in the book - she said she hasnt been single for 5 years (goign from bf to bf to bf), and she needs time to think about what shes gnna do, because she doestn wanna fall for me and have one of us end up getting hurt.............anyway i heard her out, i said a few smooth non-clingy lines (such as "w/e u do is cool wit me, i also dont like to be tied down and i love being single, i know u wanna just chill and have fun with me baby"

********: I know I can do whatever I want with you. You're my toy. I have your nuts.

(she WILL miss me, she sounded like she would over the phone)

No, she won't. She'll miss the attention, that is, until she finds someone that makes her puzzy drip and she'll be bouncing on his cack before you know it. You see? If it's not the ex-bf, it's gonna be the next guy that comes along. You're worse than AFC right now. Good luck.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Are you kidding me? You're on here all the time giving out useless advice, acting like you're a pimp. Shouldn't you work out your problems before coming on here and giving out completely retarded advice, esp. because you have no frickin idea what you're talking about, as evident in your "real situation".

Dude, you were just her rebound. What are you gonna do, let her fukk her ex-boyfriend until she gets tired of him, then take his sloppy seconds. Only a troll could be this clueless. This girl doesn't like you, if she did, there'd be no question.

You were nothing more than a rebound. Get over it.

AHAH see that is my little dilemmna........i AM a pimp, i seduce girls, i **** them, i play them........but im still generally not good with FEELINGS of love or obsession or oneitis or w/e u call it - so yes, i will ask advice on that, and i will GIVE advice on how to GET girls (because i do)

dont worry, im seriously not a troll

and hey, she actually wants nothing to do with her ex, what she said she needs to think about is how she might wanna just be single and have fun (and if i play it cool, hopefully i could see her again)........but she got all worried when i said "well you might never see me again"

I DONT KNOW

I NEED TO GO SPIN SOME hb9.5 PLATES!!! but damn its really hard to find a girl over an 8 whos also sweet and kind (which is what i want)

 

[skip2mylou781]

You're a sweet little emotional tampon, aren't you?



********: I know I can do whatever I want with you. You're my toy. I have your nuts.



No, she won't. She'll miss the attention, that is, until she finds someone that makes her puzzy drip and she'll be bouncing on his cack before you know it. You see? If it's not the ex-bf, it's gonna be the next guy that comes along. You're worse than AFC right now. Good luck.

i know your trying to help with your advice, but u sound like uve had women screw u over badly before....do u base the advise ur giving me on ur own experiences??

 

[skip2mylou781]

oh yea - i hate ********! especially cuz i thougth like you did speeddawg about a girl once, and it turned out she really DID want me back (and i had gotten another gf already) and she obsessed over me for over a month - she was the AFC lol

its never 100% gaurantee that shes speaking ********, thats the whole problem - nothing is ever certain

 

[speed dawg]

i know your trying to help with your advice, but u sound like uve had women screw u over badly before....do u base the advise ur giving me on ur own experiences??

Of course I've had women screw me over. I would have never found this site had I not. And you have one screwing you around right now. It's not a personal attack. We are just internet entities. Look how badly this chick has you strung out. So many replies to your OP have been rationalizing what the chick did, blah blah. Look at her actions. She doesn't want to be with you, or she would. She wants to keep you around to fluff her self-esteem.

 

[skip2mylou781]

you are right you are right.......in fact you dont know this, but i got dates lined up for the next 4 days ALREADY - the problem is, they are all 7-8, so im afraid when im with them, i'll still end up thinking about her, shes basically beautiful to the point that i didnt know i could even get a girl like that!!! lol

 

[DjVelvet]

skip,

Keep us posted on this HB9.5 situation. I'm really curious how it will turn out, be it ugly, good or tragic.

My one advice, judge her actions and
& take her words with a grain of salt.

 

[skip2mylou781]

well you see the last thign I said about my convo on the phone with her? I predict that will be the end of that, she seems to be giving typical ******** bullshyt despite the fact that she ACTED very warmly towards me at all times

the best bullshyt thing she said was:

"if we truly care about each other, then fate will put us together again"......dont even get me started on how much i wanted to tear her up for that line!!!! i just kept my mouth shut

she SAYS she really likes me, she SAYS she cares, but i feel like considering her the biggest b1tch for pulling this typical girly manipulative talk on me!

its hard not to see thru it considering how GREAT everythign always is between us the last 3 weeks - im talking total perfection here, with kissing and sex................but then the stupid uncertainty just has to kick in and now she needs to THINK cuz she might want to be single and "just have fun" and doesnt want anyone to get hurt

im getting pissed as I write this actually!!! so im just gonna stop.

 

[DjVelvet]

well you see the last thign I said about my convo on the phone with her? I predict that will be the end of that, she seems to be giving typical ******** bullshyt despite the fact that she ACTED very warmly towards me at all times

the best bullshyt thing she said was:

"if we truly care about each other, then fate will put us together again"......dont even get me started on how much i wanted to tear her up for that line!!!! i just kept my mouth shut

she SAYS she really likes me, she SAYS she cares, but i feel like considering her the biggest b1tch for pulling this typical girly manipulative talk on me!

its hard not to see thru it considering how GREAT everythign always is between us the last 3 weeks - im talking total perfection here, with kissing and sex................but then the stupid uncertainty just has to kick in and now she needs to THINK cuz she might want to be single and "just have fun" and doesnt want anyone to get hurt

im getting pissed as I write this actually!!! so im just gonna stop.

Man, you are getting hyped up. Advice now is to. Calmmmm Downnn....

Relaxxxxxx... Cooolll Dowwnnnnn.... Everyone do stupid things when they are on high emtions..

You will have to cut her away from your life for a while.. Both you and her need some time to cool it off. And re engage the situation with a "James Bond" attitude.. For sure she knew she has you in her hand. She has power.

When she re initiate contact, let her have the feeling that you are busy with someone else, and indifferent/ unaffected by her presence/convo.

Good luck

 

[skip2mylou781]

my dj friend said "at least u fvcked her a week ago, now she can feel like a slut"

I will simply try to forget her, TRY, TRY, TRY, even though that kinda thing doesnt come easy to me

 

[Rata Blanca]

You reduced your options.
She didn't.
Perhaps you were too available.

 

[skip2mylou781]

You reduced your options.
She didn't.
Perhaps you were too available.

thanks for your opinion, but that wasnt the problem, because every time i asked her "when do u wanna see me?", she always answered "whenever u want baby"

she was SUPER SWEET like its not even funny.........i hate girls who do a total 180 like this

 

[ObieJuan]

well you see the last thign I said about my convo on the phone with her? I predict that will be the end of that, she seems to be giving typical ******** bullshyt despite the fact that she ACTED very warmly towards me at all times

the best bullshyt thing she said was:

"if we truly care about each other, then fate will put us together again"......dont even get me started on how much i wanted to tear her up for that line!!!! i just kept my mouth shut

she SAYS she really likes me, she SAYS she cares, but i feel like considering her the biggest b1tch for pulling this typical girly manipulative talk on me!

its hard not to see thru it considering how GREAT everythign always is between us the last 3 weeks - im talking total perfection here, with kissing and sex................but then the stupid uncertainty just has to kick in and now she needs to THINK cuz she might want to be single and "just have fun" and doesnt want anyone to get hurt

im getting pissed as I write this actually!!! so im just gonna stop.

lol, I hate to call a spade...but that's a spade! At least you had your fun. Looks like Agent 00Slvt was on a mission to get a piece of Skip and fvck with him for her own excitement. Mission was only a partial success, since skip Armed himself to deflect her ******** attacks and shut her down for good. :cheer:

 

[skip2mylou781]

ObieJuan - that was great! lol

she added a twist of course like any chick would do:

ever since that last convo, she changed her AIM profile and put in the word "kiska" in there, which is the pet name that me and her always call each other...........and she also wrote a quick little love poem:

"But you have never ever felt it like you feel it right now

I'm closing off inside and oh it's only just started but you

can't be close enough unless I'm feeling your heart beat"

WOW wtf isnt this wrong on so many levels????

 

[Nighthawk]

She's no poet.

Some HB8.725 waitress I had a fling with sent me this text message out of the blue a couple of months later.

'hope is the thing that feathers.. that perches in the souls. And sings the tune without the words. and never stops at all..'

I wasn't available and found the poem a bit insipid, so I replied

'Think of all the animals you ever heard about... like rhinoceroses, tigers, cats and mink... there are lots of funny animals in all the world... but have you ever seen a panther that is pink? THINK! A panther that is positively pink?'

She never responded.

 

[d9930380]

I'm a bit drunk but here goes. I don't think skip has done anything wrong as far as the game goes. He's offered her an alternative (that she likes, even if it's a bit AFC, no offence but that's not neccessarily a bad thing), she will go back with this dude who is psycho and controlling and she's realise that this dude doesn't make her happy. If you stick with it and she's ready to have a proper relationship (she's only 21 so that's an issue) then she will come back. It's a long shot because it depends on alot of factors (todo with her) but their is no real alternative because switching and turning into a jerk now will just make her doubt the REAL you and probably make her hate you.

Sometimes you're fighting a losing battle, as an earlier poster said "at least you got to bone her a few times" ;-)

 

[skip2mylou781]

d99 - im a little drunk now too, so let me say this:

in 45 minutes, i have a date with an hb7-9 (not sure cuz im meetin her for the first time thru myspace, so she could be anywhere in that range)......and i right now DO care about this hb9.5, SHE ****IN CHANGED HER AIM PROFILE AND MADE IT ABOUT ME.........it might be some game, might be not, but the point is she DID IT, and didnt just do nothing, i am more than 50% sure she will want me in the future, so I will not change how I act towards her, I will just revert back to my pimp self and see as many other girls as possible (and I will consider her 1 of them, also the hottest one, but deff NOT potential relationship material).............I will not play super hard to get, because that would contradict how I was to her in the first place, and she really fell for the "sweet loving but not AFC" me, so I will just keep that up, only I will talk to her alot less

if she doesnt miss me enough to wanna see me, then **** HER

if she does miss me, then i will get her drunk, **** her, and she can get emotionally attached to me (trust me, she is NOT a slut)

she also will not do anything with her ex, he simply CREEPS HER OUT........shes more likely to just go out to bars and meet random guys, but i know that as long as i stay IN the picture, she will feel doubt about hooking up with those random guys cuz she will want me!

i base everything i just said on me being drunk and thinking REALISTICALLY