"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My gym turned pus$y

animal crackers

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So I hadn't worked out in a few weeks, and I went back about a week ago, and they completely got rid of all the freeweight benchpress, and dumbbells over 50 lbs. This is terrible.

I mean they replaced all of it with machines, but I always read that you can't really gain big by working out on machines.

So either I switch gyms (which would suck as I only pay 7.50 a month for this one) or figure out how to do all my excersises with 50lb or less dumbbells.

Suggestions?

I'm esp wondering about bench, squats, big excersizes that I used to be able to do.

They have the squat machines, where the bar is on a track, but is that any good?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CrizzleGA

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The bar is on a smith machine? ask them what the **** they did with all the free weights? tell them you want to buy some lolz
 

Warboss Alex

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Take every weight and decent machine in this gym to its maximum, grind them down until you've conquered every one, then change gyms (if you want to save some money, if sub-50lb dumbbells are too easy for you then yes, change immediately).
 

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Wow, that is REALLY p*ssy and pathetic.

Change gyms immediately. Being in such a p*ssy environment is only going to hurt your gains.
 

Warboss Alex

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I hate how people underestimate machines so much. Granted, there's plenty which're crappy but you can still make progress on some of them. And once you stagnate on free weights (you can't keep increasing weights all the time, eventually you WILL have to use a machine of some sort) what then?

Once your Hammer Strength chest press is at 150kg you won't be worrying about your pec size will you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gav

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i think it's best to keep a balance between machines and free weights.

last summer my private gym/leisure suite decided it would replace the bench and bbs with a multi-purpose machine; by multi purpose i mean it did everything. apart from that the dbs only went up to 10kg.

as for "squats on the track" or the smith machine i think you're talking about, i prefer doing my squats on that and i've been making slow gains on it over the past few months. (70kg*4 to 95kg*4)
 
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