My gym trainer must be banging all the girls at my gym...

[white sox bill]

....while all I can do is look on helplessly. Wanted to ask him how many girls he sacked in the gym, but just focused on my exercise and decided to be oblivious based on last night's thoughts.

Let me tell you what happened when I went into the gym today, and it stings.


Well, this is my second day of personal training, and went I went to meet my trainer, and saw him working with a hb, with his hands all over her legs. With the way she was interested in him, I'm sure they probably already fvcked.

Then we go to do some other sets of workout, and I see noticed a hb, and she came up to him, said hi or something, and he said he was working with me "XYZ", and she like ignored me and went to her exercises or something.

Then we continue doing exercises, and he's like talking with every HB that's coming on the gym, and they are like enjoying him. Hb's off all sizes and shapes, even Hb(etnics).

I need not go on, you are probably getting the drift. So, how does a 30 y/o virgin, who has never kissed or fondled a girl handle watching someone effortlessly go up and chat up with hb's, who enjoy his company, and who will even go up to him to interrupt his time. Well, all I can tell you, is that I have all the motivation that I need to finish my training, and I'm definately going to be improving my physique like fvcking crazy, and hopefully by four weeks there will be some progress.

Darn - let me think of some theories for this so I can feel better.

- He's a personal trainer working in the gym - so he's in a position of authority so that's attractive to gym patrons.

- He could potentially be a wing-man if I just open shields - usually when he talks to women or anything today, I pretended they weren't there and blocked everything out - like I was totally asexual. Just focused on the exercise.

Looks like this is going to be a tight one. I'm committed to improving my looks, muscles and physique, and think that what happeed today could be used for motivation to do just that, obviously, the better body and posture that I have, the more confident and relaxed I would feel.

But, geeze, the contrast, here I am looking at woman and feel like I'm giving them the creeps when I'm trying to talk to them, while this other guy is like breezing right through.

Luke,
As a gym owner, I can tell you that this PT would get fired for having his hands on her body. Only exceptions is if they are GF/BF. I would never allow it. That being said...

I also get to pick and choose who I want to train (priveledge of ownership). Now I gotta tell you, women who are clients are huge targets. To seduce someone like this is relatively simple--find her insecurity buttons, push them and they often will eat it right up. They appreciate the attention we give them, we give them nuggets of information on fitness and diet, and we are helping them look and feel better about themselves. Huge contributions to their emotional psyche.

I'm working one right now, I can tell the attentivness that she shows that she has at least some interest in me. I think she has a BF although not sure, this whole seduction process will take several weeks. Soon I will give her my cell # under the guise of "call me if you have any on the spot dietary questions and I can advise you" If there is interest, 90% will call and eventually we will start talking personal things. Then I can reel the fish into my boat.

I know I git bit off the subject, but if your looking to improve your physique, observe the big boys at gym. That and eat right, train hard ...PM me if you have any questions... and oh, good luck Bro!

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

Spend less time worrying about your 'asexual shield' and work on sharpening your 'sexual sword'. Don't forget the sheath.