Well, this is a wierd thing I noticed about my girl. She realli gets inscure and fast.
Last thursday I went clubbin and then a bar. End of night.
Then Friday I went to the Frat house and then to a Bar then a club then to a Hooka Bar. It was 5:30 am by the time i was done.
The next morning my girl calls me and sounds upset. I ask her what it is. She says she will explain it to me when we meet up later that day Saturday.
She tells me that she gets jealous that im dancing with all these gurls at the club and that she doesnt like that and that she feels bad cuz im dancing with the girls like the way i dance with her.
So I tell her she has nothing to worry about and I tell her a few nice things to make her secure. Cuz i hate that feeling of insecurity , i dont want her to feel that way.
THAT day she is SO Nice to me. She makes a compliment every five sentences, she tells me she loves me a million times. We have oral sex in her car, not out of the usual. BUt she is like quiet and i could tell she felt like my value in her eyes had gone up. She was making sure i felt good, she kept saying nice things, she assured me and told me how great i was all the time. She went and helped me get medicine, hangover. Her whole energy was diffrent, diffrent from the rest of the times.
I know that this is one of the Dj principles. Classic example. textbook. BUt i feel BAD. I shouldnt have to do this for my gurl to feel this way. I mean, i thought she was real and that fact that i have to STILL prove my value in her eyes sucks and hurts. I mean I go to clubs regardless to have fun, but that shouldnt be making her feel more special toward me, bcuz im out with other women or scheming on how to pick them up even if i dont dance with them.
Funny thing today, she is back to her normal self. She didnt make one compliment, but then when I told her i might go with my friend to a club later this week AGAIN she gave me one compliment when i was on the phone with her.
I guess my value in her eyes must be realli low. for her to change so much so fast.
I KNOW why she feels this way, but I guess i need some guys on this board to give me feedback and just discuss there point of view
this is buggin me. I want to discuss and tell her whats been on my mind
Last thursday I went clubbin and then a bar. End of night.
Then Friday I went to the Frat house and then to a Bar then a club then to a Hooka Bar. It was 5:30 am by the time i was done.
The next morning my girl calls me and sounds upset. I ask her what it is. She says she will explain it to me when we meet up later that day Saturday.
She tells me that she gets jealous that im dancing with all these gurls at the club and that she doesnt like that and that she feels bad cuz im dancing with the girls like the way i dance with her.
So I tell her she has nothing to worry about and I tell her a few nice things to make her secure. Cuz i hate that feeling of insecurity , i dont want her to feel that way.
THAT day she is SO Nice to me. She makes a compliment every five sentences, she tells me she loves me a million times. We have oral sex in her car, not out of the usual. BUt she is like quiet and i could tell she felt like my value in her eyes had gone up. She was making sure i felt good, she kept saying nice things, she assured me and told me how great i was all the time. She went and helped me get medicine, hangover. Her whole energy was diffrent, diffrent from the rest of the times.
I know that this is one of the Dj principles. Classic example. textbook. BUt i feel BAD. I shouldnt have to do this for my gurl to feel this way. I mean, i thought she was real and that fact that i have to STILL prove my value in her eyes sucks and hurts. I mean I go to clubs regardless to have fun, but that shouldnt be making her feel more special toward me, bcuz im out with other women or scheming on how to pick them up even if i dont dance with them.
Funny thing today, she is back to her normal self. She didnt make one compliment, but then when I told her i might go with my friend to a club later this week AGAIN she gave me one compliment when i was on the phone with her.
I guess my value in her eyes must be realli low. for her to change so much so fast.
I KNOW why she feels this way, but I guess i need some guys on this board to give me feedback and just discuss there point of view
this is buggin me. I want to discuss and tell her whats been on my mind