I will try to make this as short and sweet as possible. Had a group project today and there was gonna be a hot girl there that i wanted to game. I thought it was a perfect opportunity to test out my game and build some rapport before i ask her out.
Well she seems down to come but 10 minutes before she messages me telling me she probably wont make it. So im gonna paraphrase what was said.
Path: Your probably going to make it? Why not? It is 10 minutes before just tell us if your not going to come.
Her: My roomate has strep throat and i think i have it.
Path: Allright Feel Better
After this she says she has all these back up plans about how she will get the group work done. However, im thinking that this girl is out having fun (no school today) and she is just giving me an excuse because when i talked to her on the phone she sounded fine 40 minutes before and she didn't say squat about feeling sick. Also, i cassually invited her to a study group 3 weeks ago and she didn't show up (not important because i just said to come join us if she wanted to). So know im thinking that i don't want to trust her with my grade
When i get to my third partners house we discuss it and decide that we don't want to take a chance on her not doing any work. So i tell her look i need a good grade and i would feel more comfortable if we just did all the work and turned it in. (It is a paper and it would be a lot easier if we just did it all in my opinion because once i get started i can ussually end it easy)
So i text her telling her that we are going to do it because of the reasons above. At this point i have kind of nexted her in my head because i feel like i am being a push over for doing all the work but my grade is more important than a girl.
So now she gets in this i need to find a group mode. (apparently i wasn't clear that i was going to let her just get a grade of my hard work). So i decide to flow with it and tell her if she can find a group last mintue great.
Eventually after her saying that she doesn't have many options we find something she can do that isnt really related to the project but a decent amount of work. I get this text message
Her: BTW im not a stupid girl i get A's on all my papers i want a good grade just like you.
Path: I never called you stupid. Im sorry if i offended you it wasn't intentional.
So after that she texts me asking when she should finish it and i say dont stress over it but get it done by tongiht (trying to sound like i know what she is going through if she really is sick because i had mono last year). I then asked her for her aim (easier than texting and she gave it to me).
What would you guys have done or said? Or what would your next move be? She is kind of nexted because i think i pissed her off unintentionally like i said, but if you guys think i can salvage this in some way i am always willing to try
Well she seems down to come but 10 minutes before she messages me telling me she probably wont make it. So im gonna paraphrase what was said.
Path: Your probably going to make it? Why not? It is 10 minutes before just tell us if your not going to come.
Her: My roomate has strep throat and i think i have it.
Path: Allright Feel Better
After this she says she has all these back up plans about how she will get the group work done. However, im thinking that this girl is out having fun (no school today) and she is just giving me an excuse because when i talked to her on the phone she sounded fine 40 minutes before and she didn't say squat about feeling sick. Also, i cassually invited her to a study group 3 weeks ago and she didn't show up (not important because i just said to come join us if she wanted to). So know im thinking that i don't want to trust her with my grade
When i get to my third partners house we discuss it and decide that we don't want to take a chance on her not doing any work. So i tell her look i need a good grade and i would feel more comfortable if we just did all the work and turned it in. (It is a paper and it would be a lot easier if we just did it all in my opinion because once i get started i can ussually end it easy)
So i text her telling her that we are going to do it because of the reasons above. At this point i have kind of nexted her in my head because i feel like i am being a push over for doing all the work but my grade is more important than a girl.
So now she gets in this i need to find a group mode. (apparently i wasn't clear that i was going to let her just get a grade of my hard work). So i decide to flow with it and tell her if she can find a group last mintue great.
Eventually after her saying that she doesn't have many options we find something she can do that isnt really related to the project but a decent amount of work. I get this text message
Her: BTW im not a stupid girl i get A's on all my papers i want a good grade just like you.
Path: I never called you stupid. Im sorry if i offended you it wasn't intentional.
So after that she texts me asking when she should finish it and i say dont stress over it but get it done by tongiht (trying to sound like i know what she is going through if she really is sick because i had mono last year). I then asked her for her aim (easier than texting and she gave it to me).
What would you guys have done or said? Or what would your next move be? She is kind of nexted because i think i pissed her off unintentionally like i said, but if you guys think i can salvage this in some way i am always willing to try