My god man at some point this needs to stop

[JohnChops]

Okay so this girl who ****ed me up a long time ago started talking to me again. (go figure ) Anyway I moved on, I had relationships since then etc. Ive been done with this girl for so long. But she keeps ****ing texting me, i literally have no way to get her to stop. If i ignore her she keeps going or since i see her at work (perfect right -___-) she will confront me as to why i ignored her. Literally she texted me tonight begging me to come with her to some party because its one of our supervisors birthday. I said im busy and cant. She keeps texting and begging so I said "Ill go if you make it worth my while" she said "how can i do that " I literally said " Personally, id rather **** your brains out it seems like you need it" . You think she would stop after this right.... wrong -___- more to come ill prolly upload the whole convo later. Any advice though?

Just saying after saying this to her , it felt kinda good lol? is that right

 

[Single4Life]

If this were me.....

1) Make sure you turn your heart off, take away all possibility of falling in love with her.

once you do that.....

2) Go **** her brains out and enjoy it.

We all have a thing for our ex's sometimes. Go give her the **** and enjoy yourself, do her dirty, anything you want, then get missing when you get bored.

 

[JohnChops]

Lol I hate this ***** so that part is done. Yah I guess your right **** it might as well

 

[Krueg]

Be a man and take a stand. Tell her its over and to stop texting you or whatever. Playing games and telling her you wanna bang her brains out isnt helping !

 

[Credos]

Haha I see where this is going... You're gonna get soooooo stuck on her if you bang her. You think you're in control but you are not my friend. Tell her this ain't working out and then stop replying to her, No-contact is your friend.

 

[JohnChops]

Haha I see where this is going... You're gonna get soooooo stuck on her if you bang her. You think you're in control but you are not my friend. Tell her this ain't working out and then stop replying to her, No-contact is your friend.

exactly what I am about to do. Good stuff man. Lol im at work right now and shes working with me -___- sigh .....

 

[betheman]

What do you really want? do you know? doesnt sound like you do or that you are in control.

can you handle cold raw sex? my guess is no, you still sound attached.

she sounds like a control freak and wants you as a marrionette, she knows which buttons to press. have you no other options?

 

[JohnChops]

What do you really want? do you know? doesnt sound like you do or that you are in control.

can you handle cold raw sex? my guess is no, you still sound attached.

she sounds like a control freak and wants you as a marrionette, she knows which buttons to press. have you no other options?

Ive been spinning plates man, gotten a couple numbers, but for some reason this ***** always seems beTTER than them all. Pathetic I know, i feel like she runs my ****ing mind . Dude obviously I cant handle it, when i said lets **** i figured shed get offended and stopped talking to me.

 

[perseverance]

Your major issue is that she is a work colleague of yours. Most companies don't mind you having a private life, but when your private life starts to interfere in anyway with your work life, then that's when sh*t hits the fan.

This girl doesn't seem normal to me, who on earth confronts someone looking for answers to why they did not reply back to a text message? Who on earth blows up someone's phone with text messages all day long? It seems to me that this woman has an unhealthy obsession with you. She'll be watching you showering in your bathroom next.

If you want to have sex with her and you know that you're not going to fall into the trap of developing feelings for her other than attraction and you're 100% sure that this will not affect your job in a negative way, then I say go for it. What do you have to lose? However, I believe that you have feelings for this girl and that any private happenings between you two won't stay private for very long, especially if you smash her backdoors in and then discard her like a rag doll.