"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my goal is to meet some people today

morepoonplease

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any tips on creating a social circle? i moved far away from home to get away from negative friends, drug abuse, alcoholism and what not... now i want to meet some people the real way... how do i construct my social circle here? my best spot for meeting people is the college setting, i've got to talking to people but i don't know how to move it from just talking into making activities to chill and whatnot outside of school... i've been in college for a month and no luck help me out guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tiguere

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Start getting numbers from guys ....girls basically anything with 2 legs. Join clubs . Lots of clubs in college to join find one or 2 with common interest. Find out the local night hot spots.
 

Atom Smasher

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One rule of thumb I've found to be effective is that when I have small interactions throughout the day to really express care about the other person. That comes through and makes people very open to me. Somehow that opens doors for future meetings and interactions.
 
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