"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My girl's family makes fun of me lol

SoSuaveDJ123

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So yeah, me and my girl are 2 different races. I think BECAUSE of it, her family (not her parents) **** on me. For example, her brother acts extremely cold (even after FIVE YEARS) to me and also makes fun of me and my race whenever he sees fit.

I can't retaliate, obviously. I just ignore them. My girl tells me just to ignore. She's so sweet, so different from them so that's the only reason I put up with it. But I don't even do anything bad. I'm an alpha male as much as I can be, but I try to be nice to them and not one up them, but they still **** on me.

Her cousins all travel together and see me from place to place. Today one of them came up to me at my job, put his hand out as if to give me a five, then withdrew his hand at the last second while his friends and other cousins bellowed in laughter. Again, my girl goes "really? Wow *******s. Just ignore them babe."

What can I do? I feel like I'm reaching a boiling point where I seriously want to just **** them all up the way I know I can and instill some goddamn respect into them. I hate being disrespected, man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AriMamba

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LIKE NIKE JUST DO IT. But dont use violence. The best thing you can do is not get mad and beat them at their own game. YOU should make fun of THEM and maybe have your girl back you up. If you are really good they will either respect you and stop or get mad and want to hit you instead. Sorry for the wall of text in on my phone
 

the_count

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Yeah man, I say fight fire with fire. Give them a reason to respect you. They make fun of your race every chance they get? There's breaking balls among family but that's more than mere teasing.
 
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