"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My girlfriend..she has 2 sides..how do i act to one of them?

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My girlfriend is either acting like my girlfriend. Flirting with me, all over me, etc. Othertimes she just, stays away from me. Like if we're hanging out she'll just walk away from me when i go next to her. And she kind of keeps to herself and talks to others..not alot but more then me. Before she was like this at my friends house, and i kinda got pissed and left before everyone else and said I had to do other stuff and i didn't really say goodbye or give a kiss like usual and she didn't ask for one or come up to me like usual.

Like how the **** do i respond to this side of her? Do i tell her flat out to stop it or were not gonna work? Or learn to deal with it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Play along with her but REALLY push the limits.
 
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LikRetsam

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Man, do you like having your time wasted by your "girlfriend" ?
 
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Next time shes in a really flirty-mood and is all over you, jsut stop. Pay her no attention, watch that movie, dont flirt, turn her down.
Show her that at that moment, she can't have you. She wnast what she cant have.
and she'll love you for it.
i dunno, neat little trick. sorry my advice isn't really helpful fro ur ??
 
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biker_gixxer

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Like how the **** do i respond to this side of her? Do i tell her flat out to stop it or were not gonna work? Or learn to deal with it.

Learn to deal with it? With a name like shark, you should know the answer.

There's no way I would deal with such a girl. Girls that run hot then cold have issues.

Break it off with her FIRST and do it now. Stop reading my post and call her, drop her quickly. I promise it will only get worse or you'll regret ignoring what I"m saying.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She feels like she is in control. You need to stop it now or it will snowball and before you know it she will dump you. Being in high school, she'll prolly be like he wanted to get on me all the time.

Do what Patrick says, and don't give in if she starts apologizing or unzipping your pants. Leave and go into the other room. If she asks why, just say "I dont feel like it right now"

Girls go crazy over this ****. Even if it doesnt look like it. lol

I hate girls like the one you are talking about. She's a borderline tease.
 
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