"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My girlfriend..she has 2 sides..how do i act to one of them?

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shark

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My girlfriend is either acting like my girlfriend. Flirting with me, all over me, etc. Othertimes she just, stays away from me. Like if we're hanging out she'll just walk away from me when i go next to her. And she kind of keeps to herself and talks to others..not alot but more then me. Before she was like this at my friends house, and i kinda got pissed and left before everyone else and said I had to do other stuff and i didn't really say goodbye or give a kiss like usual and she didn't ask for one or come up to me like usual.

Like how the **** do i respond to this side of her? Do i tell her flat out to stop it or were not gonna work? Or learn to deal with it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Play along with her but REALLY push the limits.
 
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LikRetsam

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Man, do you like having your time wasted by your "girlfriend" ?
 
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Patrick124

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Next time shes in a really flirty-mood and is all over you, jsut stop. Pay her no attention, watch that movie, dont flirt, turn her down.
Show her that at that moment, she can't have you. She wnast what she cant have.
and she'll love you for it.
i dunno, neat little trick. sorry my advice isn't really helpful fro ur ??
 
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Like how the **** do i respond to this side of her? Do i tell her flat out to stop it or were not gonna work? Or learn to deal with it.

Learn to deal with it? With a name like shark, you should know the answer.

There's no way I would deal with such a girl. Girls that run hot then cold have issues.

Break it off with her FIRST and do it now. Stop reading my post and call her, drop her quickly. I promise it will only get worse or you'll regret ignoring what I"m saying.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She feels like she is in control. You need to stop it now or it will snowball and before you know it she will dump you. Being in high school, she'll prolly be like he wanted to get on me all the time.

Do what Patrick says, and don't give in if she starts apologizing or unzipping your pants. Leave and go into the other room. If she asks why, just say "I dont feel like it right now"

Girls go crazy over this ****. Even if it doesnt look like it. lol

I hate girls like the one you are talking about. She's a borderline tease.
 
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