He dosent need to change, his life will continue no matter what he does. He just has to be happy in that life, realize that hes getting a free cushy ride and accept thats where he is now. Accepting his current situation is the only kick in the ass that will get him moving forward.Kal0051 said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My girlfriend may have lost her job, what to do?
- Thread starter Luke Skywalker
- Start date