"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My girlfriend and her GUY friends..

Lost1

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Just do what a girl would do, post on her facebook wall something along the lines of "Love you baby" or something similar just to let all those other doods know whats up.

I've seen girls do this quite often.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why give a f**k about her male friends? Do you expect her to cease all friendships with the opposite sex? You can't expect a girl to discontinue mixed-sex friendships. That would be controlling. (Unless certain guy-friends were former f**k buddies; in that case, I think it would be reasonable to ask her to discontinue the relationship [providing you're her boyfriend].)
 
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