"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My girlfriend and her GUY friends..

Lost1

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Just do what a girl would do, post on her facebook wall something along the lines of "Love you baby" or something similar just to let all those other doods know whats up.

I've seen girls do this quite often.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why give a f**k about her male friends? Do you expect her to cease all friendships with the opposite sex? You can't expect a girl to discontinue mixed-sex friendships. That would be controlling. (Unless certain guy-friends were former f**k buddies; in that case, I think it would be reasonable to ask her to discontinue the relationship [providing you're her boyfriend].)
 
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