My girlfriend 69ed with her ex, but won't 69 with me?!

[SmoothTalker]

How long have you guys been dating?

Also I have to agree, I don't think 69 is that great. It sounds like a good idea, but it's hard to focus, and I also find it hard to use your fingers just because of the position. Anybody know if that would be easier with a girl significantly shorter than you?

 

[search1ng]

Over-rated?

No way!

Pretty much the best position ever.

.. i don't like eating out girls. . .

 

[speed dawg]

Original poster,

I've had this happen to me before. Girl wouldn't suck my d1ck and said it was she had an experience with her ex-bf where he had stinky balls. Oh yeah she also added that he was a "big" boy somewhere in that conversation too. It's been so long I don't remember how exactly it went down.

But I do know this. I wasn't turning her on sexually and pushing her buttons enough for her to do it. It's obvious she WILL do it, just not with me at that point. So it's not like she doesn't like it or some other rationalization.

Bottom line is, you're not getting it done. This is further evidenced by her mentioning sex acts to you with her ex-bf. So not only are you not completely turning her on, you're getting disrespected. All of this probably coincides with a drop in her Interest Level, maybe because you've been acting AFC, who knows.

I know that's the common mantra around here, and it's not what you want to hear, but it really is probably that simple.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

.. i don't like eating out girls. . .

WOW! You're missing out! I'm pretty sure any girl you meet is gonna want it as much as you probably want to get some head, so don't be stingy!! LOL

You can also 'train' yourself to like it, even crave it, through positive reinforcement techniques. I have a book by Dr. Ruth (I know, shut up) that explains "sampling the girl, then sampling..." (something you like to eat here) such as strawberries or whatever. I'll see if I can dig it up and copy a bit of that section in a new thread...

 

[nickr4080]

idk man

maybe your mom doesn't feel as comfortable with you as she did with your dad???

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

69 is cool with hot chicks, but if she's not that hot why would you want to look up her ass anyway?

But assuming she's hot enough to warrant sticking her ******* in your face, she must take it down her throat and then up the ass. There is no question of what she wants to do; immaterial.

But the fact that she has told you that she 69'd with the ex but not with you is a big stinking piss in your face. **** her ass and dump her, it's the only way you could possibly reclaim the frame and make her your willing and joyful sex slave in the near future, when you reluctantly take her back after she is begging you for it.

That's the only way to operate, forget this beta method of trying to "reason" her into giving you what you want. Fukka that.