My gf's "friend"

[sixsixsix]

lets say that you are average sized, 6 inches long 5 inch circumference. how would u feel about ur gf of 2 years, who just moved away for 2 months, buying a viberator fit for an elephant to use while she's away? this viberator is seriously 8 inches long and has a 6 inch circumference.. it is HUGE! i'm not so worried about the length, its the girth i'm worried about. it is almost 20% larger than me.

one of my concerns is that she will be much looser once she returns from her 2 month study program. what exactly will happen to her puss? will there be any significant change?

My biggest concern is that she will get used to the monsterously huge viberator, and will no longer be satisfied with my regular joe upon her return..

anyone dealt with this before? should i reveal my insecurity and ask her to use sumthing much smaller? or am i panicing?

 

[magickarl]

That is some seriously insecure ****.

It would be the equivalent of your woman worrying about you turning her vag down in favor of jerking off.

Dildos are designed to be big and pleasureful, but if you ask most women they will tell you that they would rather have the real thing any day. Most of sex is psychological for females, and while a dildo can fill up a cooter, it can't provide a warm body over hers. Think about it dude, if women really wanted huge dildos over a mans schlong, then any man with a penis smaller than a huge dildo would never get laid.

In regards to her vag- They adapt. Her vag probably isn't going to be too affected unless she plans on just keeping it in there all day long. Even then, a week or two without it and you'll be dealing with the same old vag that you were before.

I'd be more worried if she wanted to buy a life sized sex doll or asked if she could bang he-hookers or something. Give us an update in two months -- I'm stoked to find out if she is going to dump you for a vibrator or not.

 

[sixsixsix]

yeh sex is also psychological. but u cant ignore the physical element of it, if women realy enjoyed the average sized penis in her, she wouldnt go out and buy one much bigger. when she returns she can still get teh mental aspect from me, i turn her on and there will be foreplay. when it comes for me to stick my dck in her its going to be a shocking difference. if she wants the feel of sumone else over her there are plenty of positions where she can have that monster in her and have me over her. i dont want to be second choice. i dont want to be there jsut to turn her on and have her select a peice of plastic to finish her off.

she as an extremely high sex drive and we still were having sex daily, sumtimes 2 or 3 times a day without failure. i'm extremely happy with that. i dont want that to go down because i dont satisfy her anymore

ples i've had a few lose women, it never hit me until now that those loose women werent loose because they always had sex ( think about it, human dcks dont cary in size that much n if u use the same size over n over it hsouldnt make a difference), thy were loose because they used huge dildos... and yes they slept with me because mentally its more satisfying than a toy, but they obviously werent going to ask me to use dildos on them while i was f**king them.

and i'm not worried about getting dumped, i'm worried about the quality of our sex lives

 

[horaholic]

Make her do kegels. Tightness doesnt have as much to do with sex as you think. Looseness is mainly from weak vaginal muscles. I've dated chicks who have GIVEN birth who are tight as hell. If you start to notice it, tell her to do some kegels.

 

[magickarl]

yeh sex is also psychological. but u cant ignore the physical element of it, if women realy enjoyed the average sized penis in her, she wouldnt go out and buy one much bigger.

Not also psychological, -> primarily psychological. The physical element exists, but as long as you don't have a tiny penis coupled with 0 banging skill I don't think you have too much to worry about.

The way you made it sound, she bought the toy to "keep her company" while she was away. Put yourself in her perspective -> Your are in the dildo store. You can either buy a big dildo, or a little one. Might as well get the big one right?

****, switch it up! Say you had to move away for two months and your girlfriend said you can go out and buy a pocket *****. Say they have a regular vag version and a "self-warming, ultra-tight, vacuum suction" version. Are you going to buy the regular one?

Whats more than that, is when you return would you just rather go to the bathroom with your pocket ***** than bang the girl? Of course not.

Don't worry about it dude.