My GF's friend hitting on me... or is she?

[Ekimuk]

Well, i recently got introduced to my gf's co-worker (hb8.5) by my gf when we went clubbing one weekend.. they're pretty good friends.

during the night, after doing the ****y funny routine and some kino with her this friend (lets call her jane) was definetly giving me some ioi's back in my direction. to cut to the chase, my gf actually pushed me towards her friend so that we could grind on a couple of occassions and whenever we weren't griding, jane is givin me strong eye contact and always seeming to want to touch me or dance with me.

perhaps this was a one off thing, so i didn't make much of it.. until we all went out clubbing again the next time.

this time round, i played the same game, flirting, eye contact, kino, neg-hits, the works.. and when i'm doing some kino on jane, while i'm doing a neg-hit, she pulls my finger right inside her mouth and bites it playfully (i can swear to god i felt her tounge on it too) right infront of my gf.

the night goes on, and we start grinding again, this time a little bit more intimately (my hand on her ass, on her waist, her hand around my neck) and it even gets to her kissing me on the cheek, running her finger down my chest, all the while right infront of my gf..

obviously, these are all IOI's, but whether or not she's just having fun (partying) or she's seriously coming on to me, i still really don't know.. obviously, call me whatever, i could see myself banging this girl.. but i wanna make sure that i do this right.. otherwise she's gonna run off straight to my girl and i'll be in a real bad situation..

what do you guys think? ever experienced this kind of thing before?

 

[chance_]

happens all the time man. they just like playing games with you seeing if you'd cheat.

 

[Austrian88]

this happened to a friend of mine... his girlfriend just wanted to find out if he would cheat on her (it's calles "treuetest" in German, I've got no idea how to put this in English, hope you understand ^^). I think it's a common technique, and he's lost his girlfriend

edit: post above me explained it already.

 

[Ekimuk]

maybe i said it wrongly..

they're friends sure, but as for best friends? perhaps thats a little strong..

see her friend is single.. and what if... what if she wasn't testing me?

 

[Create Reality]

possible 3-sum?

 

[Holland]

Threesome!

 

[wolf116]

Seriously, talk to your girl. About everything! talk to her about what happined. That $h!t turns some girls on. bi-sexulality. Ask your gf if she thinks her friend is hot. Tell her that you loved it when she diden't care that you were grinding with her friend.

Every time you go out, take it a little further and look your gf straight in the eyes when you do it. you will know if she is into it.

Man, I felt my gf's friends pu$$y once doing this once. Tho I never did fvck her. My gf knows I'd never leave her. So she was cool with it.

Seriously the best relationship advice i ever got was

1. talk about everything.
2. show that other girls want you.

 

[Ekimuk]

maybe you guys are right..

my gf did push me towards her friend so that i would grind with her.. and she did grind with her friend too.. maybe she is telling me something! heh

i got her friend to sit on my lap a little later too, one one knee while my gf was sitting on the other...

so should i just talk to my girl about this? or perhaps turn up the kino next time we all go out? if this is a chance for a threesome, i ain't missing out on this Sh!T!

 

[ryannath]

Def a chance for a threesome. I know some girls that love to see their bf's have sex with other girls. It turns them on. I'm serious.

 

[pornstar88]

Every time you go out, take it a little further and look your gf straight in the eyes when you do it. you will know if she is into it.

Dont do that dude you might cause your girl to have trust issues. However I do agree with wolf about talking to her about it

 

[duckbutt]

ooohh shiettt!!! damn that sounds nice man good job!!! talk to ur girlfriend about it!!!

 

[chance_]

could mess up the relationship a bit. things might be different after a threesome. think about it pal. if you don't see yourself with her forever, go for it.

 

[Hitman10000]

I got this to say:

http://www.itsatrap.net/

 

[wolf116]

Every time you go out, take it a little further and look your gf straight in the eyes when you do it. you will know if she is into it.

Dont do that dude you might cause your girl to have trust issues. However I do agree with wolf about talking to her about it

I do this. She don't have trust issues(she should tho). If you dont do anything in secret with your gf's friend you'll be sweet. If she is into this, staring in her eyes while doing it will turn her on!

 

[Ekimuk]

heh yeah i'll try this tonight..

me my girl and "jane" are all heading out for dinner and then some drinks....

the more i think about it, the stronger about possibilty of a threesome happening.

 

[PuroDeAgave]

yea just be smart about initiating it cuz your girl could get weird and jealous and mad about it if you bring it up wrong

 

[wolf116]

I never said it means she wants a threesome with u and her. she may not be ready to get it on with a close friend. But you just have to make her relise that she wants one.

PS. Ask her if she has ever masterbated over a chick. if she sais yes or no say you want to see her do it. browow out a lesbian porn or just a pic of a hot naked chick will do.

Now that I turned my chick Bi, Life is so much funner. Havent got her to agree to a threesome yet. But she wants me to watch her with a girl and once her and a friend were sleeping in my bed and my gf watched me feel her friends tit!

Talk talk talk, It is hard to get around some of the moments of insecuraty tho.

I agree with Puro. you need to be smart about it to pull this off.

good luck