"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My GF was acting like a groupie slvt at the Eminem concert last night!!!

Slickster

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Originally posted by diablo
Sadly enough, I agree. Now it's time to play "Reverse the situation!"

You and your girlfriend just got done watching Britney Spears and Jessica Simpson perform in the big city nearby. On your way out, you see some of her friends and start DJ'ing them. Before you know it, you're invited past the gate and into backstage. You've got the opportunity to nail two of the hottest girls in the media eye right now (for the sake of argument, let's all agree on this one). Now perhaps it's presumptuous of me to think that you'd ditch your girlfriend in hopes of bringing home a few pictures and stories, but that's what I would do.
I just KNEW the "reverse the situation" card would be coming out here. :)

We all know that famous dudes like musicians and actors have groupies and sl*ts throwing themselves at them constantly. They could f*ck these women at will I'm sure.

Does it work the other way around though? Female stars probably have a ton of guys swarming them too. However last time I checked hot women don't respond to chumps behaving like groupies. Do you think that Brittany and Jessica are inviting guys backstage after concerts to f*ck? I think that's unrealistic.

Anyway, I don't think men respond to female stars the way chicks respond to male stars.

Imagine Angelina Jolie walking into a hotel or restaurant and a swarm of screaming guys attacking her. :crackup: You just don't see it.

In general I don't think men are phased by famous women the same way. I think most women would dump their long term boyfriend in a heartbeat if some famous guy showed interest in them. Would a guy do the same thing if the situation was reversed?

Personally if I had a good thing going with a hot long term gf I don't think I'd ditch her for some famous beatch. What a pain in the arse that would be trying to keep a chick like Brittany Spears or Jessica Simpson around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not Quite There

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Originally posted by Slickster
I just KNEW the "reverse the situation" card would be coming out here. :)

We all know that famous dudes like musicians and actors have groupies and sl*ts throwing themselves at them constantly. They could f*ck these women at will I'm sure.

Does it work the other way around though? Female stars probably have a ton of guys swarming them too. However last time I checked hot women don't respond to chumps behaving like groupies. Do you think that Brittany and Jessica are inviting guys backstage after concerts to f*ck? I think that's unrealistic.

Anyway, I don't think men respond to female stars the way chicks respond to male stars.

Imagine Angelina Jolie walking into a hotel or restaurant and a swarm of screaming guys attacking her. :crackup: You just don't see it.

In general I don't think men are phased by famous women the same way. I think most women would dump their long term boyfriend in a heartbeat if some famous guy showed interest in them. Would a guy do the same thing if the situation was reversed?

Personally if I had a good thing going with a hot long term gf I don't think I'd ditch her for some famous beatch. What a pain in the arse that would be trying to keep a chick like Brittany Spears or Jessica Simpson around.
completly agree 110%


eminem even made some comment he could never date a normal average girl again, because how could you ever trust them?

any famous male star will get girls wherever he goes, its all about one night stands for them, and if your girl is into that, then you want to get rid of them fast.
 
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