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My GF The Porn Nazi

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Im over at my GF's house right and im on her computer relaxing. I really had nothing to do so i thought id download some porn. I did'nt really care what i was dowloading i was'nt planning on wanking or anything.

So i download some porn it had a hot half asian girl in it. Anyway so i left the porn there when my GF got home we ate something and sat around watching TV and talking. After a while she says "im going to go check me email" im like "ok".

Then i walk to the computer and i catch her fingering over the porn. Jkin jkin relax

So she goes over to the computer to check her emails she comes back to me and shes like:

Her: Why did you download porn? (angry tone)

Me: I was bored

Her: but why couldnt you wait for me to get back instead of looking at other girls? (angry tone raising voice)

Me: WTF are you complaing about its ****ing porn relax

Her: **** you im working all day and you sit at my place all day thinking about other girls.

Anyway we argued back and forth and i just left because she was giving me a headache.

Why would she get angry over me watching porn?
 

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you are a maniac:) couldn't you just wait... i mean you were at her place!
 

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Seriously, its not nice leaving porn on other peoples computers, it is just like you left a magasine on her kitchen table. Not everybody feels comfortable about that stuf.

Imagine some thrid person using your gf's computer and finding the stuf, how embaressing would it be for her to tell that someone els put it there, thats a line nobody belives.
 

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I don't see why you would want to look at porn when you have the real thing right there. But I would guess she feels insulted by you fantasizing over other women.

Let's just say your girl was getting horny over a hot guy where she works, checking out his ass as he walks past and fantasizing about having sex with him. Would that bother you?
 

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If she was checkign some guy out NO i check girls out it's only natural. I would'nt care if shes checkign guys out as long as she's not flirting with them.

I have the real thing and since we became GF/BF the sex has gotten allot better but still im there bored and i dowloaded some porn. Is'nt it a over reaction on her part?

Ninja out
 

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Black_Italian: She saw it as an insult to her because its like you are telling her "you aren’t good enough, so I have to go perv over other chicks as well" ... So yes, she is kinda justified to get a little mad, but I guess she might have over-done it a little. But still, I think that the best thing to do now is to go to her and tell her this "look here (her name), don’t get the wrong idea about me watching porn, it has nothing to do with you, you are more a woman than I will ever need, just that watching porn is fun and when I’m bored its kinda entertaining." .. or something to that affect. Just let her know that it has nothing to do with her not being "good enough" for you and that its not a big deal for you, just something u did cause u were bored.

Anyways... good luck, and try sort it out with her as soon as u can, before she starts telling her friends about it and then u'll have her friends telling her to leave u cause ur a pig, blah blah blah.


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
If she was checkign some guy out NO i check girls out it's only natural. I would'nt care if shes checkign guys out as long as she's not flirting with them.

I have the real thing and since we became GF/BF the sex has gotten allot better but still im there bored and i dowloaded some porn. Is'nt it a over reaction on her part?

Ninja out
No. You shouldn't of download porn on your girlfriend’s computer.

I know what your view is because if you came home and found out your girlfriend watch porn on your computer you would be all fired up. Well its not the same with your girl my friend.

You know, it would have been one thing if this were just some random chick or a friend. But this is your GIRLFRIEND. Know the difference. Remember you told her you would only be exclusive to her that includes virtual girls as well.

Look, to them they see it as that you have lost or starting to lose your desire for her. That her body isn't hot and good enough for you because instead of looking and drooling over her body you look at someone else to get sexually arouse.

Your Girlfriend wants to be the ones that get you off and sexually arouse not by someone else. So they kind of feel hurt when you do this kind of thing man.

And question, why the hell did you leave porn on her computer?

I think you wanted her to find it, get curious, watch it, and then get all turned on by it and say "Lets FVck now!!”

You have been watching and reading too much porn my friend. :p
 

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I think this is hilarious. She wasn't freaking out because you were at her house (though WHAT WERE YOU THINKING MAN?! HAHAHA), she probably objects to your looking at porn itself. That's something you can have a reasonable conversation about. And next time you "get bored", flip on ESPN. :)
 

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Thank you ~ªêQµïTª$~ you opinion is always appreciated.

DonJuanMonk what makes it stupid huh? Are you the authority on what's stupid? Or is it just because your old you think you're smatter than all the young guys? Tell me im curious

I think you should hang out in the mature forum although i don’t think the word mature describes your personality very well.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
I think you wanted her to find it, get curious, watch it, and then get all turned on by it and say "Lets FVck now!!”
Mos of what you said wos probably right but that line wasn't. I don't need her to watch porn to ask to f*ck shes got a higher sex drive than me. Anyway the rest makes sence she want's me drooling over her not some sl*t on a computer screen.

Well when you're wrong you're i'll appologise to her in the morning and tell her she is the only woman i need or something along those lines

naoi deag se deag no ESPN in Australia but i get you're meaning il find other ways to entertain myself.

Ninja out

Ninja out
 

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Hey you live in learn bro. Just remember, actions speak louder then words. So use those skills that you have and show her that shes the only one you look at and want.

Best of Luck
 

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Honestly dude, going over to someone's house and downloading porn on their computer is pretty creepy. I think more than anything it shows a lack of respect for the other person aswell as a lack of self-control on your part.
 

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She messaged me and appologised just now. It's 3AM in the morning

It said:

Im sorry for getting angry at you babe its just that i realy like you and it hurts me that you look at other girls it makes me feel like im not good enough for you so you need to look at other girls. Please come over tomorrow we really need to talk baby Mwah Plz msg me back so i know you got this message i won't sleep till you do.

Gudnite BaBe MwaH

What do you guys think about that? she is as stubborn as me why would she appologise so quickly?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82766&perpage=20&pagenumber=2
(not bragging but i posted them so everyone might aswell look)

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
She messaged me and appologised just now. It's 3AM in the morning





What do you guys think about that? she is as stubborn as me why would she appologise so quickly?

Probably because she just finished sucking off some guy to get back at you, and now either A) feels guilty or B) simply isn't mad at you anymore. Or a combination of both.
 

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She really likes you bro and doesn't want to lose you. Even though your in the wrong, she feels that being hard on you isn't going to draw you closer and wanting you to desire her more but only to push you away. Just cause she apologizes doesn't mean its put behind completely. She’s still hurt by it but she’s not going to let it destroy what you two have. She sounds like a keeper and good girl for a LTR to me. Don't lose her bro.
 

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
She really likes you bro and doesn't want to lose you. Even though your in the wrong, she feels that being hard on you isn't going to draw you closer and wanting you to desire her more but only to push you away. Just cause she apologizes doesn't mean its put behind completely. She’s still hurt by it but she’s not going to let it destroy what you two have. She sounds like a keeper and good girl for a LTR to me. Don't lose her bro.
Makes sence thanks bro i'll try my best not to fu*k it up.


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82766&perpage=20&pagenumber=2
(not bragging but i posted them so everyone might aswell look)

Ninja out
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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