"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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~~ My GF Made-Out with Her Ex ~~

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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librito

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one-inties struck hard this time.
Im not blaming you for anything. AFC behavior is the norm in 90% of men on this planet. the other 10% of guys are the NATURALS who fu.. all the hot single girls, our GFs and wifes. I was once worst than you are right now.

do yourself a favor and dump her. well, I guess you already got dumped anyways.
 

MindOverMatter

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Your girl is in her club years where she will want to go out to clubs, dance in sexy outfits, and get hammered due to all the guys buying her drinks and sh!t. Meanwhile you are at home waiting until 4am for her to call you.

Is this the relationship you want? I'd say probably not. In this world you have two kinds of women, sl*ts and decent women. Decent women don't bother with clubs, and getting hammered like that. They have real life responsabilities, like getting up in time for work or school, and earning a living. A decent woman who is in a realtionship has no need to go to a club, she knows it's waste of time and money. The only time she will go to a club is with her man by her side, and that's because she likes spending time with him and doesn't want creepy people hitting on her.

Sl*ts on the other hand don't care about life and responsabilities, they just care about the next friday night, what they're gonna wear to the club, which club they'll go to, who they'll go with, who'll be there, etc. They don't look at the relationship with the same respect a decent woman would, and disrespect it frequently. They also don't care if creepy people hit on them, since it's one of the reasosns they go clubbing in the first place, to get attention from numerous dudes.

There's an old saying, you can freeze it, hammer it, melt it, but in the end you can't turn sh!t into gold. You have sh!t but it seems to me like you want to turn it into gold. If you have any game at all, you will dump this sl*t and replace her with someone better. Don't waste your time with this one, it'll only get worse.

Best of luck man.
 
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