"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My GF is too honest!

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We've been together for about 6 months now and the relationship is great. Good conversation, good sex, good times. Hands down, the best girl I ever dated.

She tells me everything, which is awesome because I can trust her. But the other day she said something that did not sit well with me...

We were talking about our fantasies and she asked what mine was. I told her that I had already fulfilled it by sleeping with 2 women at one time. She laughed and said that she had the same fantasy...so my first thought is "yay! another 3some!" but then she dropped the bomb on me.

She said her ultimate fantasy is to sleep with 2 GUYS!! :eek: She went on to say that she had never done it and probably never will because some things are better left to the imagination, but the idea turns her on immensely.

Now, while I appreciate her candor, I can't help but feel uncomfortable with her when she meets one of my attractive guy friends. In the back of my mind I imagine her fantasizing about the both of us DPing her or sum crazy sh!t. Also, the fact that she has not tried it makes me wonder if her curiosity will one day get the best of her.

Am I being stupid or is my discomfort normal?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't understand why this shocked you, I've heard numerous chicks say they wanted to be double teamed.

Really nothing you can do here. I wouldn't sweat over it.
 
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You're not stupid. It's a quite common fantasy, and the fact that she told you is a good sign.

I wouldn't sweat it. If it's not your thing, let her know that, but don't make a big deal out of it if everything else about her is great.
 
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If your fantasy is to sleep with two women (and what guy dosent have that fantasy, right?), why wouldnt one of hers be to sleep with two guys? DOnt you guys ever think about stuff like that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dude this is no worse than what you just told her.

In fact, its exactly the same.

Don't let this stupid comment throw up your relationship. Screw the thought up in your mind and throw it away.

You sound like your in heaven, keep it that way. Later boss :).
 
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you said yourself that you engaged in your fantasy which is basically the same as hers, but swapping around the genders. If she thinks about it, what's the big worry? She isn't actually doing it. Don't worry, things should be ok
 
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Originally posted by danrizzy
you said yourself that you engaged in your fantasy which is basically the same as hers, but swapping around the genders. If she thinks about it, what's the big worry? She isn't actually doing it. Don't worry, things should be ok
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he must feel good now getting the approval of a 15 year old ... not to be rude though


maybe you should hang out in the high school forum
 
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Originally posted by Scoiland
he must feel good now getting the approval of a 15 year old ... not to be rude though


maybe you should hang out in the high school forum
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:crackup:

Just when you think age doesn't matter on this site. ;-) Oh well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't let it get you down, man. I have a twin brother and I know every girl that meets us instinctively wonders what it would be like to be DPed by us. Doesn't bother me, but I wouldn't do it with him ever. But hey! - if you didn't share an egg with the dude, what would it matter? There are worse fantasies for a girlfriend to have.
 
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