"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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my gf is taller than me

shizz702

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rocket87 said:
pretty much
x3

And how can she be your girlfriend and "think" you have a car? How long have you been with her, a week? If you have been together for any decent amount of time I think she would know your real car situation by now.

Avoid stalking her facebook, be truthful about your situation, and focus on improving your life such as getting a car.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nexus Polaris

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So she's taller than you which means you have a valid excuse to look her straight in the t1ts when you're talking to her. This makes for all kinds of humorous situations plus the obvious benefit of getting to look at boobs all the time. I'm not seeing the problem here. Is it the car thing? Did you tell her you had a car or did she just assume it?
 

tryst type

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i'm only 5'4 and have hung out with a lot of girls taller than me. i usually say something like "you're taller then me, i'm over it, are you?" or "you're lucky i'm a legs guy, this might work!"

basically have that attitude instead of wishing you were taller. they don't generally care unless you do.
 

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im glad im 6'5 and if i did find a girl taller than me , it prolly would irritate me , but only because im used to being the tallest person around
 

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improve my life such as getting a car :) She just texted me saying sorry
for not replying last night because she fell asleep already.So what would i reply
to her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My twin brother and I are 4'0" and we're dating a model who's 8'0"... we have to stand on each others' heads to kiss her :(
 

cablecow15

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Zarky said:
My twin brother and I are 4'0" and we're dating a model who's 8'0"... we have to stand on each others' heads to kiss her :(
Well , you'll never have to explain why ur looking at her tits , you head will be at the same angle either way:rockon:
 
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