"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My GF is pissed if I talk to my friends when i'm with her

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Fela Kuti

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So my GF hates it if (for example) we go to a party, and I leave her with her friends, while I have fun with my male friends. Or when we are shopping then I meet my friend, and I have a chat with him for about 5 minutes, letting her shopping by herself for a while.

My GF said that it's not polite to do that. But I think it's a normal thing to do. So who's right here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There are two very different situations mentioned above.

Part 1 at a party, she should not get pissed that you talk to others as long as you talk to her thoughout the night, and when you are talking to her show she is your by touching her, if you don't she and her friends will ***** that you showed no real interest.

Part 2 at the shops, She is correct that you are meant to be together so why wasn't she also talking to your friend.
 
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part 1 at a party: she shouldnt get mad. just dont leave her alone too long. include her. let ur friends be her friends and her friends be ur friends.

part 2 at the mall: she should not get mad. u can talk to someone for 5 minutes.
 
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CORVETTE06 said:
part 1 at a party: she shouldnt get mad. just dont leave her alone too long. include her. let ur friends be her friends and her friends be ur friends.

part 2 at the mall: she should not get mad. u can talk to someone for 5 minutes.
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agreed
 
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Tell her you doing what you do and don't get mad if your not fvcking with her. You know what i'm saying? Don't let her tell you how to do you!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fela Kuti said:
So my GF hates it if (for example) we go to a party, and I leave her with her friends, while I have fun with my male friends. Or when we are shopping then I meet my friend, and I have a chat with him for about 5 minutes, letting her shopping by herself for a while.

My GF said that it's not polite to do that. But I think it's a normal thing to do. So who's right here?
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Have you tried including her in the conversations such that she can't go off on her own? Also, why do you leave her to fend for herself at a party when you know that she's not one to mingle on her own?
 
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