"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my gf is going new to my school

Sato21m

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My gf is going new to my school she got transferred.. we been going out for a month we work in the same place there was where i met her she is really hot and i really like her.

but I’m pretty sure that she is crazy about me.
besides she is hot, she has a really nice personality she doesn’t have evil thoughts cause i seen her the way she treats people specially lil kids and she is the best and with me i can't complain, she is really jealous about me cause at my work i had a bad reputation( player %jerk) and every time i do something or I’m talking on the phone she is questioning me who that was.
she even told me that she likes more that i can imagine and she doesn't wanna say she loves me cause she want to be pretty sure but that she is pretty close which i believe she does love me already. i don't think i love her yet but i like her a lot.

so....what attitude should i take now that school starts in a weekend she practically doesn't know anybody cause she is going as an 11 grader , an i know like75 % of the school what u guys recommend just play it cool.
and u guys think that’s an advantage that she is new in my school oh my school is big it has 5000 kids so u guys know is not like oh everybody knows there is a new girl .
k I don’t know if u guys get my point but i want to know how should i take stuff now in school.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Julian

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To me it seems like you have a thought in your head that she is going to be macked on and maybe even stolen from you. There is a very real possibility this could happen. My advice? Play it cool, just be how you are normally.

You cant really stop her if she leaves you. If a dude takes her dont fight for her, no girl thats willing to leave you is worth fighting for. And most importantly dont be THAT GUY. You know, the over protective boyfriend a$$hole.

Just go with the flow man.
 

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thats a big skool, theres only 180 give or take 10 in my graduating class
 

digitalrat

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Dayr0n,

What school do you go to?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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