My GF is acting like a loney tune right now. WTF do I do

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan

Aug 11, 2005

"only see your girlfriend once a week", is absolute bullsh*t! That is true for the first month or two, but then you have to step it up!

this I agree with you on.

completely.

also I agree with the living situation.

I recently have seen and talked to my girl more than ever..and now she is more affectionate than ever....its almost taken some desire away...but I love her...and that wont change..but I can see why it can be overwhelming..but if u really love the person it shouldnt be to hard to adjust.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.