my gf has an afc friend

[sav]

here's the issue.. its a bit strange...

my gf has an afc friend that she see's everyday, they go tot he same school... she was telling me how he does everything for her even when she tells him not too.. she cares about him only as a friend... well a couple days ago she told him that she has a boyfriend (me) and he was devastated, but he has come around and they are friends again...

how do i hint at the fact that she should go out with that AFC guy.. and not me... as obviously he cares more about her then i do... and will probably do a lot more for her then me... how do i pass her off to him.... she's nice, very good looking... but im tired of women rejecting "nice guys" this guy deserves her more then i do.. :O

i can get women, this guy probably cant... would be nice to see the nice guy win for once... hmmm... strange predicament...

 

[Maxtro]

Wow, I wasn't expecting that ending. I wonder why it took her so long to tell him that she has a boyfriend?

Ask your GF what she thinks of him, if she at least thinks that he is cute.

Yeah that's an odd situation.

 

[j0n024]

I dont think you will be able to do it, I mean IF and I stress IF you are able to "Give," her to him without her being smart enough to figure out what the hell is going on he will ruin it. You said he is an AFC he will become clingy and love her way to much and ruin it for himself...now I am not being mean but come on you know damn well she will leave him for some other guy and then what....how do you think he will feel?

 

[sav]

Wow, I wasn't expecting that ending. I wonder why it took her so long to tell him that she has a boyfriend?

Ask your GF what she thinks of him, if she at least thinks that he is cute.

Yeah that's an odd situation.

i knew about him for quite a while, he didnt know about me because she told me she doesnt wanna hurt him... but felt it wasnt right for him not to know so she broke the news to him... she loves him as a friend she told me and wouldnt want to lose him but just doesnt have feelings in that way towards him...

im a pretty open guy as you can tell, as i truly believe no other guy is better for the women that i do decide to date... but man, this guy is so into her i just feel bad for him... not that i really care, it'd be nice to see an AFC guy get together with the love of his life for once... i remember years back i was in the same boat as him.. and i know it isnt fun and i know exactly what he's going through.. im sympathetic to his cause... which is what lead me to sosuave in the first place...

i cut complete contact with the girl that was doing the same thing to me, and never looked back since...

 

[lildevil]

an afc loves life like a beggar....please pardon me but being a nice guy doesn't stop with getting a women...

his decisions and everething he does are quite the same...he exudes needdiness...

he probably would treat her like a queen and I also feel bad when I analize afcs being said "no" all the time but as much as I would would to help theirs not much I can do..If the person cant overlook their mistakes...

I UNDERSTAND u... but people only change when they hurt badly...

 

[JackPrescott]

here's the issue.. its a bit strange...

my gf has an afc friend that she see's everyday, they go tot he same school... she was telling me how he does everything for her even when she tells him not too.. she cares about him only as a friend... well a couple days ago she told him that she has a boyfriend (me) and he was devastated, but he has come around and they are friends again...

how do i hint at the fact that she should go out with that AFC guy.. and not me... as obviously he cares more about her then i do... and will probably do a lot more for her then me... how do i pass her off to him.... she's nice, very good looking... but im tired of women rejecting "nice guys" this guy deserves her more then i do.. :O

i can get women, this guy probably cant... would be nice to see the nice guy win for once... hmmm... strange predicament...

I would play mindgames with him, such as telling him about our sexual escapades, just to fukk with his head.

 

[tick37]

Become AFC to her. Run her to him. Act like you're jealous of him.

 

[Snow Plowman]

...why would you fuk up your own relationship when the AFC guy is surely going to fuk up any sexual relationship he has with her.

Your not realizing the guy is SUPER AFC!!!!

There is no way he is getting her, and even if he does he isn't going to keep her.
- The guy isn't unpredictable...he's chode
- The guy is needy
- The guy supplicates...does all these nice BS thinking he'd win her heart
- The guy is try hard

The reason he is a nice guy is because he wants your gf to see the light, he wants to jump out the shadows and show her that he does have a dik. Which she is then going to run away because she thought he wanted to be her "Girl" Friend.

You passing your gf off to him is like dumping her for no reason because at the end of the day he isn't going to get her and she'll be getting fuked by some other guy while the AFC guy is still orbiting around her.

Don't do this BS, if you like your gf stay with her.

 

[KontrollerX]

If you want to help that guy give him the link to this place.

If you pass the girl off to this guy even if she goes for him she'll eventually leave him when another bad boy comes along ie a DJ or a natural born DJ.

He doesn't win by getting handed something he doesn't know what to do with and will ultimately lose to someone else anyway lol.

 

[sav]

If you want to help that guy give him the link to this place.

If you pass the girl off to this guy even if she goes for him she'll eventually leave him when another bad boy comes along ie a DJ or a natural born DJ.

He doesn't win by getting handed something he doesn't know what to do with and will ultimately lose to someone else anyway lol.

if i introduce the guy here... he'll figure out my username and tell the girl about all my exploits lol... damn AFC's dont know a good thing when hit over the head with it...

i think the best i could do is take him under my wing and show him the ways... which wont happen cuz im busy as ****... *sigh* i guess he'll be stuck occupying my gf's time when im not around lol.. hopefully he'll wake up and realize that he's doing me a favor... :/

 

[Paintballguy]

haha this thread is funny.

your girlfriend will never have sex or be in any kind of relationship with this afc dude. girls dont want to be treated nice and worshipped atleast by guys they bang.

If you wanna get rid of her, just start being afc. Call her 24x7, be overly nice, needy, jealous of that guy, etc...

 

[DJDamage]

Leave him be.

Tell your girlfriend that if she really wants to be a "good friend" to this guy, she should try her hardest to hook him up with one of her cute friends. However I suspect that your girlfriend is enjoying this attention from this guy so much(without having to give out her poon) that she won't do it. It is this reason alone why the two of them CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT BE FRIENDS.

Oh and he hasn't come around. Guys like that don't come around, trust me I was one of them. He will wait it out for another oppertuinty while faking his suppose "friendship" status, which doesn't make him a nice guy at all.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Hahaha, is your "g/f" a virgin? No? Then she is, right now, sucking his penis like a Wally Wonka Chocolate Factory Roly Poly Flop Knop Tootsie Pop!!! Haha, the trick is on you kid!! You are an AFC to think otherwise?

 

[tick37]

haha this thread is funny.

your girlfriend will never have sex or be in any kind of relationship with this afc dude. girls dont want to be treated nice and worshipped atleast by guys they bang.

If you wanna get rid of her, just start being afc. Call her 24x7, be overly nice, needy, jealous of that guy, etc...

Ditto

 

[DonGorgon]

..how do i hint at the fact that she should go out with that AFC guy.. and not me... as obviously he cares more about her then i do.....

SHE PREFERES YOU CAUSE YOU DONT CARE ABOUT HER AS MUCH ... WOMEN LOVE MEN WHO DONGT LIKE THEM..

 

[sav]

thanks for the comic relief LMS... but for 1 i highly doubt that and for 2 i always use a condom because i just dont trust girls, even ones i date... after being hurt in the past i have stopped trusting women... i would want nothing more then for them to hook up

its not that i dont care about her... i do... in the sense that i want whats best for her... and i know that i'll end up hurting her in the long run, until that somebody comes along that i'll think i can trust and breaks down the barriers that i have setup for myself.

im pretty straight forward with her too... she knows that while im with her, im with her.. and that i wont cheat on her per say... but she knows where we both stand which is part of the allure i think, she knows she's with me yet she doesnt fully have me.

mr_elor: like i said, i wouldnt bring him here simply because i dont want anybody in the "real world" to read about my issues, to read about my exploits. this place to me is where i vent my frustration, grow as an individual and do my best to share my knowledge with others. while it is selfish in a sense, i dont care

but i think u guys are right, there is no use in handouts and im really starting to feel like he's a vulture which isnt doing him any favors.