"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My gf has a 'private number'?!

guywhoneedshelp

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jafyk said:
GuyWhoNEEdsHElp, why are you telling him not to go to certain sites and yet you list those sites. It seems to me that in a round about way you're asking him to go to the sites?
I think he'll do what he needs to do, that's all.

-=Ice-T=- said:
Is this guy serious?
Oh I'm dead serious.

Kev07 said:
I think he is :crackup:
and you're right.

Kev07 said:
:crackup:

no seriusly, what does your girl do for a living, that might answer something
I'm serious.

Dole said:
Do you work for the CIA?
No, nothing like that at all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mo B!tches

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Here's your update:

Doctor = no

Escort = no

Cheater = YES

:cry:
 
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PlayToWin

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no update, means I think its fairly safe to assume the worst. Whether that means she is an escort or something, or something else really weird or serious, and that when he brought it up, it was an absolute shlt show, where she tried to blame something on him to cover it up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jafyk

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muhuwahaha said:
why would an escort have a boyfriend?
Because everybody needs love and someone to connect with on a deeper level besides empty meaningless sex.
 

Blackmm

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Maybe she is a hitwoman for the mob.
 

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r0cky said:
yea private numbers are common among escorts and doctors, so lets just hope she's a doctor.
This made me spit water out of my mouth.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mo B!tches

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BrianKozmo said:
Dude, what happened? How'd you find out? And did you break up with her?
She said it was not active. I pulled out my phone and said let's see, I'll call it right now. She jumped up and said "no, wait...." Then proceeded to throw a fit accusing me of "looking for **** to get mad about." I know this tatic, turn it back on the other person while throwing a royal fit, in hopes they will back down, but I didn't. Asked her who she gives that number to. She picks up a papasan chair over her head and heaves it against the wall (there goes the deposit). More arguing. Says she was "just talking to" this guy from blackplanet.com who lives in GA that she has never met. l leave. A day later got the "we should take a space break" stuff then she has been calling me wanting me back, sorry, etc.

That's the long story short version. I know what to do going forward, pretty much.
 

slickaz

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nicely plaid bru..dont let "just talkin to him" bullish get past you.

its happened to me only once..
i was 17, still naive. found out she was more than just "talkn to" this 26 yr old muhfvka...hookin up at beach and dry humpin under trees..my friends saw em n took pics..i threw it in her face n walked out..still..felt like a sucka for fallin for that "just talkin to" antic..never again.

sorry to hear about it though bru..take it easy and im sure you'll find a TON! of other chics..u seem pretty clever
 

Mo B!tches

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I really, really hate technology right now. Especially teh intranetz!! :cuss:
 

nightcrawler

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Mo B!tches said:
She said it was not active. I pulled out my phone and said let's see, I'll call it right now. She jumped up and said "no, wait...." Then proceeded to throw a fit accusing me of "looking for **** to get mad about." I know this tatic, turn it back on the other person while throwing a royal fit, in hopes they will back down, but I didn't. Asked her who she gives that number to. She picks up a papasan chair over her head and heaves it against the wall (there goes the deposit). More arguing. Says she was "just talking to" this guy from blackplanet.com who lives in GA that she has never met. l leave. A day later got the "we should take a space break" stuff then she has been calling me wanting me back, sorry, etc.

That's the long story short version. I know what to do going forward, pretty much.
I bet she's really an escort.

personally I'd be devastated....or highly disgusted, or both.
 

Mo B!tches

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muhuwahaha said:
I bet she's really an escort.

personally I'd be devastated....or highly disgusted, or both.
She's not an escort.

Your mom is an escort.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJDamage

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Mo B!tches said:
Says she was "just talking to" this guy from blackplanet.com who lives in GA that she has never met
I still think she gave you the clean version.

Nothing that came out of her mouth is credible.

You did the right thing by getting rid of her.
 
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