Well guys, I've been going out with my gf, since 8/3/05. I knew her since she was 13, we used to date this is like 3 years ago. We gave our virginity to each other etc.. I've always been in love with this girl mind you.
Lately she's been totally disrespecting me. For example, she wants to get the back of her neck pierced. I think it's called the nape? I told her I donot want her to get it done as it looks horrible. She dissagreed with me and told me I was acting like an @sshole. Well she finally said she wouldn't get it done.
Tuesday, we go to the tattoo polar to see if I could get shading done on my current tattoo because she doesn't like it. Well after conversating with the guy, she started mentioning to him me and her, and how I'm stubborn an ****. The guy was talking about her future in culunary school as he was a chef previously. He told her she should explore her options, well she says to him my bf wants me to move in with him next year but I want to explore my options in culunary, she made it sound as if I was needy almost.
This pist me off.
So she went home wednesday, as she lives in Upstate New Jersey. I didn't call her wednesday as I felt I wanted to see her call me more often for a change. I was playing Planetside at like 2am, and she calls me. She asked why I didn't call her all day in a sadish kinda voice. I told her I was busy with my family an stuff. She said but you still shoulda called me. Well after that we chated a bit, and I hung up to return to my game and let her sleep.
Well yesterday, I called her at about 9pm, asked what was up, and her friend answers the phone doing weird voices an ****. I didn't know who it was at first, I told her she sounded like she was high or drunk. Then they hung up on me. 5mins later, her friend calls me on my gf's cell phone making like she's my gf. She even said I love you, I said it back, but I had a feeling it wasn't my gf. I told her friend you donot sound like my gf... so put jess on the phone. Well I got her on the phone and she sounded weird my gf, but It was her for sure this time. I asked her what was up she said she was over her friend kristys house who she is ALWAYS over.
I told her I was going to get my tattoo fixed in a few minutes, which I really wasn't I just didn't want to look stupid since I slept all day lol. She said oh good go get the blue outline done. She told me she wanted me to get a price on her tattoo, but I told her it wasn't possible because I didn't have a pic of it.
Then she mentioned she wants J. D. on her back standing for Jack Daniels, I told her no, it's gona look stupid, so she flips out...
She says well I want my nape pierced then ( back of her neck ) I said hell no. She said john your being a **** again. So I started defending myself, and she hung up on me. After that I called back, 3 rings got voice mail. Called back again, 7 rings got voice mail, I left a msg like nothing went on, and told her to call back.
Later on I was telling my friend about this, so he called her cell phone about 10 with his # blocked, and sure enough she picked up the phone and said hello hello then my friend hung up. She called me late tonight but I didn't answer the phone, called her later and she rushed me off the phone saying she was tierd, I told her I had to talk to her about stuff.
My question is, why is she playing games with me now? I love her so much, I gave her a precious piece of jewlery from my childhood which is pretty expensive, because I wanted her to have it to remember me all the time. Now lately she acts like a *****, and is disrespecting me, not allowing me to voice my opinion without calling me a ****. What should I do? This girl is going to be 17 in like 3 weeks, I'm really tierd of this bs drama. She's acting very immature. Should I next my gf? My friend introduced me to a HB7 with a cute face over the net, that he knows at work. But Honestly I'd really like to keep my gf, I've known her forever, I know her parents; I really do love this girl with all my heart. Please help me out guys.
- ReT
Sorry for long post.
Lately she's been totally disrespecting me. For example, she wants to get the back of her neck pierced. I think it's called the nape? I told her I donot want her to get it done as it looks horrible. She dissagreed with me and told me I was acting like an @sshole. Well she finally said she wouldn't get it done.
Tuesday, we go to the tattoo polar to see if I could get shading done on my current tattoo because she doesn't like it. Well after conversating with the guy, she started mentioning to him me and her, and how I'm stubborn an ****. The guy was talking about her future in culunary school as he was a chef previously. He told her she should explore her options, well she says to him my bf wants me to move in with him next year but I want to explore my options in culunary, she made it sound as if I was needy almost.
This pist me off.
So she went home wednesday, as she lives in Upstate New Jersey. I didn't call her wednesday as I felt I wanted to see her call me more often for a change. I was playing Planetside at like 2am, and she calls me. She asked why I didn't call her all day in a sadish kinda voice. I told her I was busy with my family an stuff. She said but you still shoulda called me. Well after that we chated a bit, and I hung up to return to my game and let her sleep.
Well yesterday, I called her at about 9pm, asked what was up, and her friend answers the phone doing weird voices an ****. I didn't know who it was at first, I told her she sounded like she was high or drunk. Then they hung up on me. 5mins later, her friend calls me on my gf's cell phone making like she's my gf. She even said I love you, I said it back, but I had a feeling it wasn't my gf. I told her friend you donot sound like my gf... so put jess on the phone. Well I got her on the phone and she sounded weird my gf, but It was her for sure this time. I asked her what was up she said she was over her friend kristys house who she is ALWAYS over.
I told her I was going to get my tattoo fixed in a few minutes, which I really wasn't I just didn't want to look stupid since I slept all day lol. She said oh good go get the blue outline done. She told me she wanted me to get a price on her tattoo, but I told her it wasn't possible because I didn't have a pic of it.
Then she mentioned she wants J. D. on her back standing for Jack Daniels, I told her no, it's gona look stupid, so she flips out...
She says well I want my nape pierced then ( back of her neck ) I said hell no. She said john your being a **** again. So I started defending myself, and she hung up on me. After that I called back, 3 rings got voice mail. Called back again, 7 rings got voice mail, I left a msg like nothing went on, and told her to call back.
Later on I was telling my friend about this, so he called her cell phone about 10 with his # blocked, and sure enough she picked up the phone and said hello hello then my friend hung up. She called me late tonight but I didn't answer the phone, called her later and she rushed me off the phone saying she was tierd, I told her I had to talk to her about stuff.
My question is, why is she playing games with me now? I love her so much, I gave her a precious piece of jewlery from my childhood which is pretty expensive, because I wanted her to have it to remember me all the time. Now lately she acts like a *****, and is disrespecting me, not allowing me to voice my opinion without calling me a ****. What should I do? This girl is going to be 17 in like 3 weeks, I'm really tierd of this bs drama. She's acting very immature. Should I next my gf? My friend introduced me to a HB7 with a cute face over the net, that he knows at work. But Honestly I'd really like to keep my gf, I've known her forever, I know her parents; I really do love this girl with all my heart. Please help me out guys.
- ReT
Sorry for long post.
ttyl ~*T