"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My Gf and The Prom

HollowHorizon

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My girlfriend is going to the prom and im not shure if other pepole are alowed to go..But if i cannot i know she will have a date because no girl goes to the prom alone..This gets me very tense and im greatly protective i feel as if she was in some other guys hands i would bash his scull in no joke.... If it went well somthing could happen becuase i know guys n alot would kill to have her n now i gotta kill for her she is very beautiful a hb-9 in fact now i wanna go on a rampage but i dont wanna come off to be some tough ******* but this is eating me alive what should i do this is very upsetting...................
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vigilante7

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Communicate, and if she is lying........find out, trap her
 

LuvMyArmyMan

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Im sure she can take guests....but if she cant, she might take a guy friend (and i stress, guy friends are JUST friends) or go with a group of friends.

But yeah, if you find out she can bring a guest and she goes with another guy....I'd be mad.
 

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<----------High school forum is that way
 

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I don't want to add to your irritation but I have never heard of a school, public or private, that didn't allow students to bring outside dates. There may be rules about how close you can dance, what you can wear (even in this day and age), etc., but I would be shocked to hear that she cannot bring someone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HollowHorizon

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alrighty....................She has invited me to the prom and we are still a happy couple.....Thanks Everyone Just updating all you guys
 
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