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My gf and one of her friends

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Last night i just met one of my gf guy friends but the thing is he is really gay and she wants to hangout with him alone on somedays they have been friends for 3 or 4 years. She even said that they will rent a movie and see it at his house now am i being stupid about all this and have nothing to worry about? Also he has a boyfriend and he approved of me and even said that i was good looking and that she picked a nice guy.
 

b's nuts

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If I was up your ass you'd know
he is gay, why even trip about it? The more time she hangs out with him, the more time you have to spend doing your own thing. Sounds good to me.
 

fm2

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I know there's feelings of insecurity when a GF wants to hang with a guy friend, even if he is gay, but look at it this way..... If they've been friends for years, there's obviously nothing "more than just friends" otherwise she wouldn't even be with you right now. She would be with the guy friend right now, or they would've tried previously and found it wouldn't have worked and they wouldn't be together at all now. The fact that you know he's gay.......come on man. Just do something fun that you know she'd like to do with you while she's with him. See if she gets the hint.

The thing I find unacceptable is when they hang with past boyfriends. My last GF was doing this so I dumped her immediately. Either the past relationship is over or it isn't. If they're still hanging with the past guy, dump her. I find it disrespectful if a girl does that. (If she was with a new boyfriend and she wanted to come back for some Tom, I'd let that happen :D )

L8R,
fm2
 

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If he's a faggot you have absolutely nothing to worry about. She might be just seeing how you react to her 'hanging alone' with another guy.

Stay cool about it.
 
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