Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My gf and one of her friends

Gambit2318

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Last night i just met one of my gf guy friends but the thing is he is really gay and she wants to hangout with him alone on somedays they have been friends for 3 or 4 years. She even said that they will rent a movie and see it at his house now am i being stupid about all this and have nothing to worry about? Also he has a boyfriend and he approved of me and even said that i was good looking and that she picked a nice guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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b's nuts

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he is gay, why even trip about it? The more time she hangs out with him, the more time you have to spend doing your own thing. Sounds good to me.
 

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I know there's feelings of insecurity when a GF wants to hang with a guy friend, even if he is gay, but look at it this way..... If they've been friends for years, there's obviously nothing "more than just friends" otherwise she wouldn't even be with you right now. She would be with the guy friend right now, or they would've tried previously and found it wouldn't have worked and they wouldn't be together at all now. The fact that you know he's gay.......come on man. Just do something fun that you know she'd like to do with you while she's with him. See if she gets the hint.

The thing I find unacceptable is when they hang with past boyfriends. My last GF was doing this so I dumped her immediately. Either the past relationship is over or it isn't. If they're still hanging with the past guy, dump her. I find it disrespectful if a girl does that. (If she was with a new boyfriend and she wanted to come back for some Tom, I'd let that happen :D )

L8R,
fm2
 

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If he's a faggot you have absolutely nothing to worry about. She might be just seeing how you react to her 'hanging alone' with another guy.

Stay cool about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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