"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chamber36

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So I'm in the Friend Zone with some girl. She came over last night and told me about how she finally broke up with her boyfriend and she wants to settle down with a serius guy and have an LTR.

The subject of sex hasn't really been discussed openly which is pretty bad. I know my improved game is making her circuits drive her towards me. So last night she asked me if she could borrow my bike. I thought well i would prefer if she slept over, but i don't have a condom. hmmmm..... So after 30 seconds of thought, i said: "yeah you can borrow the bike". Now i learned she visited me during her lunch break but i was sleeping. She just called me to ask if i could go by her work and bring her a cigarette.

My new Latin Lover/Gentleman/Don Juan game tells me that i should be a complete gentleman when bringing the cigarette. That doesn't mean i couldn't ridicule her for having an addiction and not being able to support it. All i need ultimately is condoms, and then to invite the girl into my room, and when it starts raining so bad she doesn't want to leave, then things will happen.

Now I'm not in love with my FZ girl, I just want to see if I could use my improved game to change her perception of me.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alright so I went and brought 2 cigarettes to FZ girl. She said tonight she's going to FZ girl2's house to get drunk and she invited me. I said that would be fun.

I'm sure there'll be at least 3 girls, and as far as I know the only guy will be FZgirl2's boyfriend.

Only thing is though, this is officially opposed to f283000's Rule: Don't Hang Out With Her Friends!!!!

I'm going to try it anyway though. Let's see where my new level of game takes me.
 

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Dude, what the ****? Is this a joke? She asked you to bring a cigarette to her work and you brought two?!

I don't think putting yourself in the role of servant is going to make her gina tingle.
 

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well cigarettes are just cigarettes, but her use of them is getting out of hand. I'll put a stop to it, don;t worry.

so i went out with her today and was with 2 other ladies. One of which is an HB8.5 imo, the other a 6. They seemed to like me so I guess I'm doing fine.

The HB8.5 acts like a real ***** sometimes, but i just had some friendly conversation with her and it seemed like she was opening up to me a little bit, watching me more. I would suck her vag for days so pardon me for being nice to a girl who's acted like a ***** to me months back. She was drunk and trying to stick up for a girl who i was mackin, but she was into me. Today was the time to be nice. Anyway i invited them all to my place fr drinks and they refused. So i said alright well I'm going hme. FZ girl texted me and said she and the UG6 wanted to come over. So I let them come over.

They wanted to borrow my bike, so i lent it, cuz I'm being nice, but I think it sort f is too much. She is getting everything she wants out of a boyfriend, but I'm not getting any poon. I'm supposed to lay down the law at this point, but whatever. I'm using her as a pivot.

I'm glad i got on a good page with HB8.5. I'd never had a conversation with her and i think i made a good impression today.

Tomorrow I've got a date with an entirely different girl, so I'm not planning on contacting FZ girl at all.
 

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You are constantly friendzoning yourself. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, it's good to have a couple of female friends, but you're never going to be this girl's boyfriend. Personally I'm okay with having attractive female friends and not banging them, but you'll have to find out if you are too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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