"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my frustration has peaked

amazingswayze

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i haven't been this bored with my life or sexually frustrated in a while. i've had the house to myself for almost a week and I thought I could get laid.

I had two options prior to me having a free crib.

Plate 1 who is a virgin, and I was her first kiss (no experience)

Plate 2 who smoked with me and gave me head the last time my house was free

Plate 2 has been a ***** to me lately so I was ready to disregard her but she sent me a text the other night, "we have unfinished business"
so she wanted to chill....

and now she flakes. last night i invited her over and she said, "lol you're not getting any" and "im not dtf"
what the **** is wrong with this *****? i sat at my house lonely af last night.

she's no longer a plate, i guess.

I had plate 1 come over the other night and I was trying to **** her but it only resulted in me sucking her titties and she gave me a handjob. she put up a lot of resistance. she never had been in a situation like that before. it was so boring. this girl is going to take a while and I just wanted to get it over with while my mom wasn't home. I am being so impatient. I can't help it.

I'm pretty bored now, headed to the gym.

I've been holding down my desperation for a while but I guess I don't know how to act with the house all to myself. This makes me think...

When I'm a bachelor, I have to have other things to do, then just chase *****.
I need to keep busy. I've been thinking about girls way too much just because my mom isn't home, and it's wrong. I'm bored, and I want to get past this frustrating time in my life.

I'm sitting at my house all day doing nothing. i need help

if you guys have any insight it would help a bit.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Casillas

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Get a hobbie that will keep your mind busy, and why you stress over 2 plates? You should have more options.
 

amazingswayze

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more options...

mo money mo problems

mo ho'z mo problems?

no way man.

plate spinning is the way to go

the more girls you have access to...

the less you care about each girl.
It's science!

seriously...

i'll have a wider selection of women once school starts fall semester.
it's coming up soon!
i think i should join a club, and still enjoy the college experience,
even though I'm not commuting.

I wanna chill in the girls dorms ;)
 
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