My Friends view on rejection

[Comeback kid]

My friends don't seem to be believers of sosuave. This one friend i used to hang out with who moved away, we still talk on the phone from time to time and he's pretty good with girls. He used to know me back when i was a nice guy and got rejected all the time. Anyways i was just telling him about so suave and about how some girl flaked me but it still didn't matter. He just said that i didn't have any game or she wouldn't do that, he didn't believe that sosuave was helping either. I tried to explain it to him, but it didn't work. This bothers me a little. It seems like every situation where i could get rejected my friends assume its my fault as if i failed at something. It shows most of them seem to still think girls are the prize and any rejection means you failed.

 

[Bussey]

People don't understand the seduction + sosuave community without seeking it and finding it themselves. There's a lot to be said about becoming aware of something by oneself as opposed as being introduced to it by an outsider.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

People don't understand the seduction + sosuave community without seeking it and finding it themselves. There's a lot to be said about becoming aware of something by oneself as opposed as being introduced to it by an outsider.

Yea . Completely true . They will think that you're a looser that needs tips for women . They think that they know all that need to be known .

 

[ChrizZ]

I think your friends are exactly right.

A rejection means that you failed.

 

[Comeback kid]

I think your friends are exactly right.

A rejection means that you failed.

A rejection is just a rejection. Something not working out. Sometimes its something you did, sometimes it was something out of your control. But i don't think they should be seen as failures or anything that would affect your worth as a man.

 

[ChrizZ]

A rejection is just a rejection. Something not working out. Sometimes its something you did, sometimes it was something out of your control. But i don't think they should be seen as failures or anything that would affect your worth as a man.

I'm not saying that.

The whole reason why you talk to the b!tch is to get into her pants asap. If you fail to achieve that goal, well...you fail and move on.

Rejection is just a euphemism for failure...

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

I'm not saying that.

The whole reason why you talk to the b!tch is to get into her pants asap. If you fail to achieve that goal, well...you fail and move on.

Rejection is just a euphemism for failure...

Omg . All the time we are trying to tell that rejection is just a exercise . Its not that you did something wrong . Maybe they are having bad day , maybe they are tired of being hitted all the time !

Its not failure , try to see it as an exercise .

Most of guys here dont approach because they are scared to fail , and we should prove that its not failure , its just another exercise to improve your game .

 

[Bussey]

I'm not saying that.

The whole reason why you talk to the b!tch is to get into her pants asap. If you fail to achieve that goal, well...you fail and move on.

Rejection is just a euphemism for failure...

This is what concerns me with some of the seduction material.. when guys are learning this stuff some of them read it all wrong and they become misogynists like this guy. Don't take anything this guy says to heart. He's missing the point and taking the wrong approach to this.

 

[ChrizZ]

This is what concerns me with some of the seduction material.. when guys are learning this stuff some of them read it all wrong and they become misogynists like this guy. Don't take anything this guy says to heart. He's missing the point and taking the wrong approach to this.

Yes, everybody please stop listening to me

 

[KontrollerX]

This is what concerns me with some of the seduction material.. when guys are learning this stuff some of them read it all wrong and they become misogynists like this guy. Don't take anything this guy says to heart. He's missing the point and taking the wrong approach to this.

I don't think he's missed the point at all.

He has a different take on what it means to be a DJ than you, that is all.

Some might call your form of it sympery but I say whatever works for you based on your own personal interpretation of the knowledge you get here is the path you and everyone else needs to follow to be a DJ.

A lot of us on the forum and possibly ChriZz included have become or already were misanthropes in the moderate sense of the term which is often confused for misogyny.

Our misanthropic distrust and disdain for society is spread equally among male and female members of society.

We not only voice our disgust for what we believe to be bad women here but also AFC's, symps and feminized males that think they are DJ's.

It is the feminized males or women on here secretly posing as men who most often like to slap the misongyny label on the posters of this site.

Its a shame because its just not true and doubly a shame because if such posters believe this so strongly I would suggest they would find more happiness on Loveshack.org.

I mean because browsing here must be very painful for them and only a fool keeps putting his or her fingers on a hot stove after getting burned.

 

[MooseGod]

Isn't the term "rejection" a little pointed anyway? It's all in how you perceive things. If your advances are shot down, that just means the chick wouldn't know the perfect catch if it bit her in the ass. Unless you are a crappy excuse for a man.

Chicks are dumb. Most will realize their mistakes when it's too late, and become bitter when their looks fade.