My friends .. mess up

[Fcuk]

What would you do if you got afc friends .. who can't socialize
at all, with little confident, insecure(jealousy), and are not friendly to new ppl.

I got a prob here cause i love meeting new ppl and it's hard for
me to do that if i bring my afc friends along.. we've been friends for a long time and we do alot of stuff together cause we share
the same hobbies. So i hang out alot with them.

But it's hard for me to socialize when they are around cause
they don't socialize at all. New year is coming and usually i celebrate with my afc friends every year but i want to hang
out with my other friends so i can meet more new friends. I can't bring my afc friends to meet my friends cause they'll really mess
it up.

What should i do man ?
my afc friends and all my other friends should be celebrating
at the same place.

 

[Julian]

Your as good as the people you surround yourself with.


Whip those bastards into shape, your their friend and its your job to do this.

If not, leave them out. Find someone else to do pimpish activity with. They will get the picture and get with the program or get left in the dust.

Dude just bring your AFC friends with you... if they dont want to go its their loss. I understand your plight, i have been at both ends (been an AFC who would rather do nothing big) to being a DJ who was down for any cause that led to pimpishness.

Why cant your bring your AFC friends with? How will they mess up New years? The worse they could do is hang around in the corner of a party keeping to themselves and everyone will ignore them if they show no interest in anything outside of their little bubble.

 

[Jimbo2k]

Originally posted by Julian
Why cant your bring your AFC friends with? How will they mess up New years? The worse they could do is hang around in the corner of a party keeping to themselves and everyone will ignore them if they show no interest in anything outside of their little bubble.

I think he was trying to say that he has a hard time socializing with them around, cause they bring him down.

I suggest you invite them to your "other friends" party, but warn them your gonna be mingling with everyone and wont be able to stick around with them the whole night, so if they want to go, they better socialize.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Originally posted by Fcuk
...my afc friends and all my other friends should be celebrating
at the same place.

And why is that?

In a perfect world--sure, what the hell...but you're not living in a perfect world (last I checked...), so I'd ditch these types of expectations.

You have two sets of friends. You've got skills that one set of friends doesn't have, and which the other set does have. Sorry dude, but this isn't like 7th grade anymore where everyone likes pizza and a movie and everyone can come along and enjoy themselves, life is more complicated now and you have to handle it differently.

If you want to socialize, do it with Friends Set #2 and leave Friends Set #1 back where they're happiest (in front of video games, wanking off, getting stoned--I dunno...)

Don't apologize for it or feel guilty. You live your life, and if they want to join, they'll let you know. You've got plenty enough time to do things with both sets of friends, just don't try to force them both into the same box.

Give us a FR on Jan 2, if you can remember what happened, that is..