"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My friends GF cheated on him with a huuuge AFC...hmm?

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Yeah so my friend is a good-looking kid, and his GF is a goodlooking girl. She's a LITTLE bit of an AW but has always been good to him. I found out she kissed this kid and actually had feeling for him. Now i'm not g*y but the kid isn't better then my friend, AT ALL. In fact, he's uglier, dumber, more needy, desperate..and my friend is not some AFC WUSS...nor is he a DJ but does this make sense? I mean her reasoning is that she was just really upset with my friend and started likeing him and regretted it.

So wtf is the deal with that? your thoughts...?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obviously...

You're playing favorites. You don't want to think that this girl is more attracted to someone outside of your social group. I actually feel while reading this that the statements you made about the so-called AFC are your own opinion, because let's face it... the proof is in the pudding.
 
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no no--A LOT of people know what happend and ALL ALL ALL cant believe it bc this guy isn't as good as the current BF and in fact MOST people hate him. It's weird..
 
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"I rock peas on my head, but don't call me peahead. There's bees on my head, but don't call me beehead. Bruce Lee's on my head, but don't call me leehead"---Andy Milonakis
 
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Ok...

How many people is alot, and are these the people who hate the accused afc?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does it really matter? I mean, seriously. You could either spend time trying to figure out why this one guy was the exception to the rule, or you could devote your mental energies to something a little more worthwhile. Going out and doing cold approaches, for instance.
 
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