"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"My friends call me ____ ....but you should call me ____"

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Climax

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I like using my name, and use it proudly. People may not realize this, but even the way in which you represent yourself and tell a woman your name, can tell her a lot about your confidence and self worth levels. Using this "technique" may get you results too, but I am merely pointing out that sometimes its not what you say, but the manner that you say it.

Just some food for thought.
 

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well obviously if your name is climax, who wouldn't be proud to use it, not all of us are so lucky haha JK. But yeh its a nice line, but it will not win you the war. It shows playfulness and a bit of C+F so thats good. However its not something you can post a field report on i feel, because to be honest a succesful approach isn't to do with just 1 sentence you say, but more of how the whole conversation presents yourself as and also the second thing you say is a lot more important than the first. I partly agree with climax on the proudness of the name thing because i am guessing you mean this to be your first line(introduction).

On a seperate note i think this is good line to jot down in your memory for an opportunity to use it when it feels right. Maybe for when you talked for a while and they ask you your name "My friends call me Jordan, but you can call me Stud muffin". well thats my input anyway.
 
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