My friend who is a natural said something very interesting

[GreatHornedOwl]

We were talking with a couple of buddies and he said "Guys who are good with women aren't out on the weekends trying to pick them up in a bar, they walk in with one they already know."

Thoughts, comments?

 

[evan12]

What if you dont have women you know them , I am new immigrant and does not have any social circle, my only option is cold approach, even to make some guy friends , I usually just start conversation with strangers on gym , workplace , etc .
Social circle is less hassle , but not every one is rounded with friends especially if you moved from your childhood place

 

[Zarky]

As I say in my blog: "Women attract women." Your pal already seems to know this.

 

[alpha_ash]

I walked in to a club last night with 4 women! Felt pretty good haha. The most I have had with me enter the club previously is 2, so step up!

 

[nismo-4]

I see men bringing their sisters, cousins, and even their moms into social settings with them. Having ANY attractive woman on you is much much better than having NONE. The men who do this sh*t apparently have a brain.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

What if you dont have women you know them , I am new immigrant and does not have any social circle, my only option is cold approach, even to make some guy friends , I usually just start conversation with strangers on gym , workplace , etc .
Social circle is less hassle , but not every one is rounded with friends especially if you moved from your childhood place

That is a smart move. Some clueless guys get bullheaded and go straight for women and only women. The reality is that expanding your social circle is the easiest and most efficient way to meet new women in this modern age. It is becoming virtually impossible to do cold approaches these days, because women have their shields up 24/7 and are reluctant to trust anyone who is not in their social circle.

 

[zekko]

As I say in my blog: "Women attract women." Your pal already seems to know this.

That may have been what he meant, but I'm not sure.

Maybe he meant that guys who are good with women tend to accumulate them as they live their everyday life, through work, friends, hobbies, social circle. They make friends easily, they meet girls all the time, they engage them in an attractive way, the girls are attracted to them, they go out. They don't have to pick up girls in a club because they already have women to go out with.

Now they probably will meet some girls while they're out in a bar or a club because they meet and attract girls wherever they go. That's what naturals do.

 

[Darth]

Yeah, that makes sense. Remember that the best game is no game. When it's just your personality 24/7, you tend to make friends and you're not often in situations where you would be going out totally alone.

 

[Down Low]

I see men bringing their sisters, cousins, and even their moms into social settings with them. Having ANY attractive woman on you is much much better than having NONE. The men who do this sh*t apparently have a brain.

Yeah, I'm gonna stop by the drug store, buy flowers and chocolates, give them to my sister, and ask if she wants to go out on a date.

What a d1ckless generation!

 

[SamTheHobit]

Yeah, I'm gonna stop by the drug store, buy flowers and chocolates, give them to my sister, and ask if she wants to go out on a date.

What a d1ckless generation!

Totally agree.