"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My friend wants to leave her man for me, HELP

blue183

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I have know this girl for about seven years, and we have had a sexual relationship for about four. she has always been that girl that i could go to, and get some ass from anytime iv wanted. For the last 2 years she has had a serious boyfriend, and i have been doing my own thing with other girls. our relationship was great, but know she is starting to change.

She lives with her boyfriend, and the lease on there apartment is about to be up, now she is talking about moving in with me. last week i caught her reading my text messages. she is always asking me whens the last time iv had sex, and when i tell her she gets upset, and in the past she never cared. she is always trying to fight with me now.

This girl is very attractive, and has great, great sex, but she is starting to drive me crazy. she has took me on vacations with her, has helped me through college, and has done a lot of great things for me, and i genuinely appreciate everything she has done, and i have love for her, but i don't want to be with her.

i don't know what to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

blue183

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DJ_Hero said:
You do realize that you have a say in this? No one can force you to get in a relationship with them. Stop being a pussy and take control of this.
i know what i have to do, but how do i tell her, without making her mad, and still willing to be that girl I can call for some ass anytime i want?
 
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