"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my friend needs help.

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A friend of Mine has sort of given up. he doesn't want a relationship and I fear he may be single forever. it'like he just doesn't care. I've tried loking through the DJ bible but I can't find the solution. can someone help?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Bloke
Your friend is you !
Whoopidoo Sherlock :cheer:
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by \O/
Whoopidoo Sherlock :cheer:
Before he can get help, he needs to know that he is his friend, and be a man and admit the the one he is talking about is he himself.
 

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Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
-48 laws of power

And that's real. You don't want to be apart of someone else's pitty party, trust me. Nothign positive can come out of it. I know you care for him, but I am sure you care for yosuelf more.

If he wants to change, he will seek it. Right now he wants people to feel sorry for him.

This is the real world.. one of the things I learned at an earlier age then people my age is people in general, don't give a **** about you, at the end of the day, you gotta look out for you, and that is even true with friends.

I love my friends, but they are going to look out for them before me, and I would I.

Adversity builds charatcer. Let him find the answers he is looking for himself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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