"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my friend needs help.

Tidus_V

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A friend of Mine has sort of given up. he doesn't want a relationship and I fear he may be single forever. it'like he just doesn't care. I've tried loking through the DJ bible but I can't find the solution. can someone help?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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\O/

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Originally posted by Bloke
Your friend is you !
Whoopidoo Sherlock :cheer:
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by \O/
Whoopidoo Sherlock :cheer:
Before he can get help, he needs to know that he is his friend, and be a man and admit the the one he is talking about is he himself.
 

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Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
-48 laws of power

And that's real. You don't want to be apart of someone else's pitty party, trust me. Nothign positive can come out of it. I know you care for him, but I am sure you care for yosuelf more.

If he wants to change, he will seek it. Right now he wants people to feel sorry for him.

This is the real world.. one of the things I learned at an earlier age then people my age is people in general, don't give a **** about you, at the end of the day, you gotta look out for you, and that is even true with friends.

I love my friends, but they are going to look out for them before me, and I would I.

Adversity builds charatcer. Let him find the answers he is looking for himself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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