"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"My friend likes you"

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Okay.. this happens all the time.. and it's starting to suck... every time a hot girl wants to go further she brings out the "my friend likes you" ..... well of course the ugly friend likes me, she probably likes every guy she sees.....

so here's the situation.. my roomate's sister is the ugly one, she likes me because im funny/cute/confident/loud.. etc.... well so does her best friend who is definitly an 8 to 8.5ish .... really cute face and all..... but aparently there's a pattern in the past... where the UG likes some guy, and the HB gets the guy.. creates jealousy.. etc.... so how the hell do I avoid that, or get past it..... the HB comes over and hangs out (knowing that my "ex" gf lives with me).. but she's never home at the time I hang out with the new HB (the girl living with me wont be for long)...... me and the HB watch movies, do stupid ****.. have fun... we did karaoke one night, but the UG was there.. that caused both of them to like me more.. but I can't get past the UG liking me...

there's more to the story about who these girls are... such as the fact that the HB had some sort of relations with my current roomate, but he has a girlfriend, WHO IS MY SISTER! so it's kinda crazy........ I just want to avoid the best friend UG liking me thing.

any help would be great. thanks guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lake mary, florida, jesus you must make some money.

i say ditch any situation you aren't comfortable with. you're around orlando, there's tons of poon in that area.
 

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haha... i dont make tons of money.. I'm 19 years old and work at AAA National... I just have a really good priced apartment :p

but yea, there's tons of other girls... and definitly hot ones in this area.. I just have the UG liking me problem all the time... these girls aren't ones I approached though, they were just ppl I met (explained previously)... but even when I do approach a group or something, anywhere.. the uglier friend likes me.. even if I approach a 7 and an 8 ... even if the 8 likes me... the damn 7 tells her friend how cute I am and how she likes me and it always kills the chances with the target.... my best way yet has been to approach the target and directly talk to her first.. which is kinda said not to be done, but oh well.

I just want this 1 girl cuz I cant have her. lol
 

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i'd just try to play it as much as you can.

make them compete for you, but spur the HB on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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would you think avoiding the UG is a good idea?

I mean, I obviously have to be nice because the UG is the HBs best friend, and if I don't like the UG, the HB goes bye bye... this has not been stated, it's just common sense, and I can tell by how much the HB defends the UG... that's too many UGs and HBs in one post.
 

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Treat all biotches the same until you isolate and close the deal.. Whats up with UG's thinking they can get hot man meat? Just befriend the UG enough to do some light kino, makes the hottie jealous then go in for the kill...
 

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Be friends with the UG.. but let her know right off that you arent real interested in her. Dont mess with her head. Compliment her hot friend when she is there, and when she isnt. Give her something to think about. If she see's her ugly friend doesnt stand a chance.. she can nudge in and say "hey im thinking about going for your friend" What can she do? She could lie and say "he's mine" But if you played it right.. they should both already know you arent interested in the UG.

Show the UG a little bit of respect.. since she is friends with the HB. But dont be a tease. Once you get the UG thinking she stands a chance. She might push out her hot friend. And the hot friend might just go "oh well, she needs a man, i can find another easily"

Its not cool to play head games. Especially if it gets you knowhere and makes you look like the bad guy..
 
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