My Friend Is About to Take a Big Fall!!! Help!

[SamRi72]

Alright, I have a friend who is completely fallen ONEitis for one of the most popular and dangerous girls at school (this should be high school forum, but I figured that you people have much more experience and wisdom). Now, my friend got a date set up with her, but he pissed her off a week and a half before it on AIM. After apologizing constantly (even though what he did was more tongue in cheek and not malicious or wrong), she has blocked him on AIM and is still very pissed off at him.

Nonetheless, my AFC homie decided to get her some Godiva, balloons, and a stuffed animal with an "I'm sorry card". I was not able to stop him from doing that, but I was able to get him to change it to a Valentine's theme barely mentioning the incident. Nonetheless, after this all out Valentine's, I think she'll look at him as a complete wuss and friend zone him permanently if she forgives him.

I know he's going to take a fall for this, but this guy is too stubborn to admit he's wrong sometimes. Just in case though, I need you're guys' incite and support. Please help me save of my friends from taking a major fall. Is he doing the right thing, or can it be made into the right thing to do? DJ's, an AFC and a great friend of mine needs your help.

 

[vorbis]

Never apologise unless its REALLY serious!

This is as close to a rule as you can get with women. Women won't care about the actual apology but will think you weak for doing so. If you don't apologies, they'll call you a bastard but will respect you for not doing so.

Your friend sounds like he's blown it with this chick already. His best bet would be to ignore her and game other girls.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...I know he's going to take a fall for this, but this guy is too stubborn to admit he's wrong sometimes. Just in case though, I need you're guys' incite and support. Please help me save of my friends from taking a major fall. Is he doing the right thing, or can it be made into the right thing to do? DJ's, an AFC and a great friend of mine needs your help.

How much is this guy paying you to be his savior?

 

[SamRi72]

This is one of my best friends here, man. We've been homies 7 years. You don't care about your friends?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

This is one of my best friends here, man. We've been homies 7 years. You don't care about your friends?

I care for them enough to respect their choices and not invoke my opinions upon them unless they ask for it. It's not my job to save them and feeling that they aren't capable to learn from their mistakes is insulting their character in my opinion.

 

[Ripper]

I care for them enough to respect their choices and not invoke my opinions upon them unless they ask for it. It's not my job to save them and feeling that they aren't capable to learn from their mistakes is insulting their character in my opinion.

Well said. If you really care about your friend, let him make the mistakes. It'll be better for him in the long run. Even if you save him now, he'll still commit the same mistakes in the future.

 

[SamRi72]

Aight, I'll get off his case. Thanks a lot.