"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My friend asks me to further his AFCness

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Leporello

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A friend of mine, 'J', has gone major AFC lately over his ex-girlfriend. Actually she's not really his ex; she was cheating on her bf with my friend, then dumped him (J, that is) and went back to her original bf.

Since then she's cut off all contact and J has been depressed and forlorn. He's never put much stock in relationships before this and it's kind of surprising. Now he wants me to go talk to the girl (I know her a little bit) and find out what she's feeling, why she won't return his calls etc.

My first reaction is simply to refuse, but maybe there's a way I can help him after all...?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do not help him!!!

That will only get you involved with all the drama and sh*t, and will further get him all messed up about his ex.

If you really want to help him, you have to talk some fvcking sense into him and tell him he has to fvcking let the entire thing go and just go for other girls. Theres no way hes gonna get his ex back, and why would he want to if she fvcking cheated on him? Your friend is a primetime afc, and needs some help. Refer him to this site, or just try to talk some serious sense into him. Thats really all you can do.
 
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